My doctor said he would induce my labor at 38 weeks, if my baby girl still had growth issues and if the percentile dropped to 10 or less. Last thursday, it was 10 percentile, and he said if she didn't come on her own by 38 weeks, he would induce labor at that time. I'm 36 weeks 1 day today, he said my cervix was super thin, and 1cm dilated. Is there a possibility this can change... that my doctor will let her just come on her own? I don't want to be induced, i would much rather her come on her own when she is ready to come ! As much as I am anxious to meet her and have her home with me, those last few weeks of brain development and lung maturation means so much more to me! I'm hoping and praying that things turn around, and I don't have to get induced. I'm surely going to talk to my doctor about it Thursday when I go back.
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Would you consider this cheating? What would you do I need advice from a neutral stand point. Genuine advice of what you would do. Ds had his tonsils out last night. For some reason my gut about dh was not good. At night I logged into his Snapchat and saw he was talking to an old friend who he had a thing with. Last thing I was able to see was him saying it was hard to not log into those pictures and she then said she couldn't answer the phone because she was with her husband. I texted dh and asked what pictures was it so hard for him to not look at and I guess he called her and they talked. And she supposedly came clean to me and said they would just talk and vent about what stresses them. Dh said the same thing and I guess the pictures were of them from a long time ago of them and other friends hanging out. Dh started crying saying he never meant anything that everything looked like the perfect crime but that there was nothing there. I have since kept my distance and told him to give me space. At the moment I don't want to see him. I believe what they said but I'm so hurt and I don't want to be the stupid person to believe everything.
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So glad you sent that to him!
It is amazing how they get all "i know" and "I understand" and such and ask why we keep telling them things....um...I thought you understood what marriage was and that "I do" to me means not "doing" anyone else....LOL! Ugh!
Hugs for support!
LaLa G·
Haha prettyandpregnant. Here is the text I sent him Fri night:
I would think this would go without saying. But then, I thought our marriage vows meant something. So I'll be clear. No one at the house this weekend other than you and (dd).
He replied - I understand.
So, yeah, I think he got the point. It was ok. I missed her like crazy. He has to work on his next scheduled Sat so he will see her Fri eve and Sun that weekend. It will be a while until he has her for a full weekend. So at least it's giving me time to adjust.
deleted-user·
This is so great to hear that you have the support of his family.
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That is freaking awesome! I like that they don't automatically take his side because he's flesh and blood. It's good for him to understand he royally f*ed up. And not having his parents support will make it all the more real. I'd be doing a happy dance inside my head lol.
deleted-user·
I hope he is hating himself right now.
deleted-user·
He's gotta be kicking himself in the ass.
LaLa G·
Yes rubymurray, thats exactly what i told him. I was already planning on going to my sisters this weekend so I told him he can stay here with her this time. He will have to figure out past that.
deleted-user·
Yay in-laws!! Stick with ur dignified silence and civilness...it will make u look better n he will start to feel like s*** n then...karma will hit! :)
deleted-user·
I hope he never ever brings your dd to Biotch's house. I mean he says he won't but who knows with that pos. If he did, I would castrate his ass. This is just awful... I'm so glad your in-laws are on your side! Whoop whoop!
My in-laws are pretty racist so definitely wouldn't be on my side! Bummer.
LaLa G·
Lol teach I get along with my mil though.
LaLa G·
Lmao at the panda team.
deleted-user·
Omg...I just saw this....yeah for your in-laws....very different from what my mil said/did....
However...she doesn't get to see lo right now....and hasn't for a year and counting!!!
Hugs!
deleted-user·
B means beeyotch! ? Perfectly suits her considering she had no problem messing around and perfectly knowing he was married. The nerve of that woman!
Girl, she's lucky you haven't seen her out and about in the streets or else she might get a beat down! ????Lol. If I was there we would have to panda team her ass! ??
I'm glad his parents are supportive and understanding of your decision and that they know it's their son's fault for putting you and your daughter in this situation.
deleted-user·
Yay for awesome in laws!!!
deleted-user·
Oh okay, we'll that's good then, I'm happy you basically have all the cards on your side & karma will soon bite him in his lying cheating ass.
LaLa G·
No jazmin, he won't bring dd there. But that's where he's staying, and now he can't bring dd to his parent's either. So now we're having to discuss other arrangements for his weekends until he gets his own place.
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What the blazing s*** , he is really willing to bring your daughter there ? Oh man.. Thank god you got rid of him .
deleted-user·
I'm glad they aren't the type of parents to defend even when their child is wrong.
LaLa G·
Yes, B is the other woman. He went to stay with her when I kicked him out of here.
deleted-user·
Go in-laws!!!
At least you know that you have them to support you as well while you're going through this difficult time.
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Who is "b" is that the other women ? Because omg if it is I wish to castrate him now.
If not then good he deserves it, Ive been reading your post, but didn't comment because there was a lot of replies, but good job mama, my Step father did this to my mom & even got the other women pregnant -.- & my mom never left him ! And now she regrets it, but I am so happy you were able to get rid of scum (: