So glad you sent that to him!

It is amazing how they get all "i know" and "I understand" and such and ask why we keep telling them things....um...I thought you understood what marriage was and that "I do" to me means not "doing" anyone else....LOL! Ugh!

Hugs for support!

Haha prettyandpregnant. Here is the text I sent him Fri night:

I would think this would go without saying. But then, I thought our marriage vows meant something. So I'll be clear. No one at the house this weekend other than you and (dd).

He replied - I understand.

So, yeah, I think he got the point. It was ok. I missed her like crazy. He has to work on his next scheduled Sat so he will see her Fri eve and Sun that weekend. It will be a while until he has her for a full weekend. So at least it's giving me time to adjust.

This is so great to hear that you have the support of his family.

That is freaking awesome! I like that they don't automatically take his side because he's flesh and blood. It's good for him to understand he royally f*ed up. And not having his parents support will make it all the more real. I'd be doing a happy dance inside my head lol.

I hope he is hating himself right now.

He's gotta be kicking himself in the ass.

Yes rubymurray, thats exactly what i told him. I was already planning on going to my sisters this weekend so I told him he can stay here with her this time. He will have to figure out past that.

Yay in-laws!! Stick with ur dignified silence and civilness...it will make u look better n he will start to feel like s*** n then...karma will hit! :)

I hope he never ever brings your dd to Biotch's house. I mean he says he won't but who knows with that pos. If he did, I would castrate his ass. This is just awful... I'm so glad your in-laws are on your side! Whoop whoop!

My in-laws are pretty racist so definitely wouldn't be on my side! Bummer.

Lol teach I get along with my mil though.

Lmao at the panda team.

Omg...I just saw this....yeah for your in-laws....very different from what my mil said/did....

However...she doesn't get to see lo right now....and hasn't for a year and counting!!!

Hugs!

B means beeyotch! ? Perfectly suits her considering she had no problem messing around and perfectly knowing he was married. The nerve of that woman!

Girl, she's lucky you haven't seen her out and about in the streets or else she might get a beat down! ????Lol. If I was there we would have to panda team her ass! ??

I'm glad his parents are supportive and understanding of your decision and that they know it's their son's fault for putting you and your daughter in this situation.

Yay for awesome in laws!!!

Oh okay, we'll that's good then, I'm happy you basically have all the cards on your side & karma will soon bite him in his lying cheating ass.

No jazmin, he won't bring dd there. But that's where he's staying, and now he can't bring dd to his parent's either. So now we're having to discuss other arrangements for his weekends until he gets his own place.

What the blazing s*** , he is really willing to bring your daughter there ? Oh man.. Thank god you got rid of him .

I'm glad they aren't the type of parents to defend even when their child is wrong.

Yes, B is the other woman. He went to stay with her when I kicked him out of here.

Go in-laws!!!

At least you know that you have them to support you as well while you're going through this difficult time.

Who is "b" is that the other women ? Because omg if it is I wish to castrate him now.

If not then good he deserves it, Ive been reading your post, but didn't comment because there was a lot of replies, but good job mama, my Step father did this to my mom & even got the other women pregnant -.- & my mom never left him ! And now she regrets it, but I am so happy you were able to get rid of scum (: