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Ok so kinda a long story but needing to vent.....in my home we have quite a few pets.....3 dogs, 10 cats, and a…

Ok so kinda a long story but needing to vent.....in my home we have quite a few pets.....3 dogs, 10 cats, and a potbellied pig.....now my husky also has 7, 3 week old puppies who have found their voices and are not shy about being vocal......last night one of the puppies was escaping the welping box which is fine....but she got stuck and was screaming bloody murder.....my husband can't be bothered to wake up and help check on them so I'm guessing this was sometime around 2am I got up put her back with her mama and siblings and tried to go back to sleep.....4am rolls around and the ham bone decides it's time to wake up and have his breakfast!! So now that i've dealt with the screaming puppy I have the screaming pig to deal with and anyone who has heard a screaming pig knows it's not pleasant.....once again husband sleeps right on through it not even worried about it.....so I get up and go feed the pig so he'll let me go back to bed.....now at 5am the husband's alarm starts going off.....there is no reason for it to go off til 6......the alarm wakes the pig back up and now the dogs are ready to go potty and the cats are ready for morning snuggles and I'm still fricken tired!!!!! So since the hubby thinks he needs to be up that early and wake the rest of the house up I ask him to clean out the pigs litter box.....not a hard task....take it outside, dump it over the fence, rinse, refill......he claims not to have time......this particular chore was aupposed to be done last Sunday!! Right along with the cat boxes that he didn't do til last night after I asked him for e days to do!!!! So I tell him ok nevermind I'll just do it.....and he comes back with "why do you do that it's so annoying! Why do you just give up on stuff that easy because then it makes me not want to do it!" Excuse me?!?!? First off you were supposed to do litterboxes since I'm not supposed to right now days ago....I even have asked you to everyday since.....and you wonder why I gave up asking and just decided to do it my damn self so you could drink the coffee I made you when I was up at 5!!!! No!!!!! So by now piggies box is pretty stinky.....so as I'm doing it my damn self I get outside and have to put it down on the deck and throw up over the rail because it's so gnarly at this point.....husband peeks out the door as I'm finishing throwing up and picking rhe box back up to finish the job.....doesn't offer to help yet or even say a word.....so I finish cleaning the litter box and am rinsing it out when he comes out and asks about why I give up asking for his help again and again I say that this should have been done Sunday or Monday and it wasn't or even the night before when he finally did the cat boxes.....he says he's going to work and leaves.......what do I do? Did I do something wrong? I don't get how I'm the bad guy here!

The pig he actually got me when we first got together and then he had to go to Utah for work amd we did the long distance relationship for a while....the rest of the animals have been here since before we even met and i've always taken care of them myself.....the only difference is that I'm not supposed to do litterboxes which he has known since we got pregnant....he knew about the animals long before he asked me to marry him though and we're halfway through this pregnancy now so the schedule really isn't anything new either.....he didn't even get upset til I told him nevermind i'd just get it done myself.

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kammyМама сына (1 год)

Are you gonna be able to handle a newborn and all these pet duties? Sounds like you both need to work on communication and maybe your husband doesn't want all those pets. If he doesn't want them he won't care for them.

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