It really stinks that when my daughter is in bed for the night and she does sleep all night but on the rare occasion she…

But sometimes when u try to make things better by going in it just wakes them up more and makes them more upset

I know that's what I am trying to Learn to do now because I have a bad habit of trying to change her in the middle of the night but I learned the hard way and I do have a video monitor it dose help it's just since my daughter turned 1 she has been crying a little every now and then for some reason I'm not use to it and it kills me when she crys at night I feel so bad and I get into my own head like if I let her cry am I being a bad mom or somthing

I would use a video baby monitor to check on her instead of going in. Had the same issue with my son so I had to stop going in his room to check on him. The monitor definitely gives me a peace of mind. I also make sure to put on a overnight diaper before he goes to sleep so I don’t have to wake him to change him during the night. Once I put him down for the night I don’t go back in his room at all (unless he wakes up). But most of the time when he wakes up crying he can put himself back to sleep