I would be pissed but it's honestly y'alls thing but if it bothers you maybe you should do couples counseling and figure out a way to handle the situation

are you guys together ? like a couple?? he shouldn't be texting her or any girl like that.. I would be hella pissed n if it was me I would start doing my own thing n that's how he would realize.

Um yeah my husband only texts the opposite gender if it's work related. He sells cars. No friends that are girls.

yeah the fact that he questions why you have his phone in your hand was the same way my daughter's father was and when it went off at night I would get up and check it and that was how I started to see what he was doing!

Its just respect ya know ...

@charlotte302, yes 👍🏼

My husband and I have had an agreement since weve been together in 9th grade ... As long as were together . We're not allowed to text or call the other sex unless its a mutual friend or a family member . And lemme tell you .. One thing i have neverrrr had a problem with is him cheating on me . Because he knows how i am .... I dont like bullshit

he only hides it never deletes anything but last night I grabbed his phone to put it on silent and he's like why do you have my phone well I'd like to sleep and your phone keeps going off

I don't think he should be texting her even if it's a friendly conversation. I'd kill my BabyDaddy

Yeah I wouldn't be so quick to get married especially when he fights with you about talking to her if he is hiding it and deleting the text then there is something going on

My husband does not text ANY other girls. Not even on Facebook. He says he has no need to. So if he is really fighting with you about it, maybe you should be concerned

and were supposed to get married on the 30th and I'm like idk...

my daughter's father did that and come to find out he was sexting her and telling her that we were split up and that he was only around me because we were having a baby so he was there for his child

it's just frustrating. me asking about her or their conversion is like ww3 and I don't want to stress because of the baby but he's leaving me no options and I hate fighting

Nope he shouldn't be texting her those no need. Especially because he's doing it when he is away from you at work. It happened to me once I read the whole conversation and nothing bad was said but still there was no need for him to be talking to her.. At all. It's not like they were best friends before. So I told him either you stop or you can go talk to her all you want but I will no longer be your gf and he stopped faster then he's ever done anything blocked her number right in front of me. Lol

like he rarely texts me when he's at work but he's always texting her like tf

okay because it's really starting to piss me off the fact that he tries to hide it. like be here for me and your child if not tell me and I'll go in not playing some game!

i'd wonder what there is to discuss too. u need to talk to her for what? he better text you. tf is wrong w these boys 😒

dude I would fuckinv shit bricks !!!! fuck that bullshit you ask away I would go crazy he tells me some shit like that

uh no I'd have a fit. my man would never bc he's more of a I'm yours and only yours man but still the thought of it pisses me off@pickleandpeanutandprincess