Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Trigger. Lost baby Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
Birth Plan Rant I used to be all about getting an epidural, but after research and thinking about it more I want to have an unmedicated birth (this is my first baby). What annoys me is when I say that I'm going to TRY my hardest to have a natural and unmedicated birth people always feel the need to say that I'm crazy or that I'm going to change my mind when I get in that position. Or that epidurals are the best. I do realize that plans change, but why can't people be supportive and encouraging?
I'm sorry in advanced but I see 17, 18, 19 year olds on here actually planning to have a baby with their boyfriends,Do you have your own pot to piss in or a window to throw it out of?.. I mean if it happens, cool but PLANNING? NOPE NOT ME.
Planning on another baby...? So for my first time moms when do you plan on having your second child?
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You got this stay strong and u will be a great mom
Angela·
@alexandra.m.abrams Im sorry hun maybe he will realize wat hes doing and come home
Alexandra Abrama·
I know I need to pull myself together. When I feel my baby move and when I finally hold my baby in my arms all of this will seem like distant memories. Whether he comes back or not. Hoping I'll be posting happy post on here eventually. I'm a Debbie downer.
Ashley ·
i know the whole expenses come in to play here. but aside from that
forget him... he left you WHILE you’re pregnant what kind of a “man” does that
if it was also out of the blue... unless you guys fought so much and you sorta knew this might come. that’s not something he should of done.
Aylenrose·
I'm so sorry this is happening. :( you will be an amazing mommy and this will eventually make you stronger. You will see what a super mom you become. All I can say is try to be around the people that make you smile the most. It will make it a bit easier. We are all rooting for you and if you need to talk gender reveal ideas, names etc you can message me! :)
Jacqueline Ahrens·
Мама дочки (2 года)
I'm terribly sorry to read of what you are going thru. I definitely cannot imagine your pain.. but know that I offer you my friendship to talk about things. Just pray and ask God to help you ask him for guidance.. he truly exists... i say this to you by personal experience.. but reach out to me.. talk soon.
Oxana·
Мама дочки (1 год)
You need to find the resource of happiness and power. The little energy inside you is going to give it to you. Soon, when you see the first ultrasound with little human inside, when the little heart beats & you hear it... many things will change. But once you hold him or her in your arms.. just believe: there is no stronger love, than love to your baby. Nothing can be compared. That’s animal instinct when you are scared for the baby, that incredible tenderness when you see your baby sleeping or smiling... so many new and positive emotions are ahead. Just go through things you have to go now. He is loosing, not you. He is loosing the chance to feel happiness many times a day because of one special reason. The person can not manage himself would manage you & your baby. As well remember: everything our baby see in our family is the draft for their future life. Answer to yourself what kind of father (life time example) do you want for your baby? What criterias and what is the most important? Answer this question and live through it. Now is very tough what you feel. And it is not fair what is happening in your life. But sooner you admit it, sooner the recovery starts. 🌹.