@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk outside without this information. Children of color are being targeted and killed too. It’s not just adults. I let my son know we treat everyone equally and with respect. I let him know that we love everyone for their differences. In every aspect. Color, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference we love everyone.
Question. I just left my husband for cheating and now hes been harassing me. Hes threatening to come get our son. I dont care if he sees his son but I'm not comfortable with him leaving with him bc hes never taken care of him a day In his life and he might use him against me. Am I wrong for feeling this way??
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
is it wrong of me to be upset my bf works a lot? he works 6 days a week, nights. & on his day off he sleeps all day. i never see him, spend time with him, i’m not intimate with him, nothing. i only get help from him when he’s awake bc he wants to be left alone to sleep which is understandable. he gets mad i complain that he works too much. & i was talking to a girl at my job about it and she said i shouldn’t be mad bc he’s making money & told me who wouldn’t want their man making money? & it’s not even about that it’s the fact i’m a single mom 6 days a week and never spend time w my bf. am i wrong for being upset or should i be happy he’s working a lot?
I am never throwing my son a big party again. We are literally spending over 1k and I’m so stressed. I did not want to spend this much money
chelle berjus·
Многодетная мама (5 детей)
Yea he should just bring his son with him...make memories ..take pictures and videos etc..ur son is over one sooo he past that newborn crazy stage lol....
chelle berjus·
Многодетная мама (5 детей)
Wowwww if i was u i would not be home ...ill sneak off early early wayyyy before he come knocking on the door...then ill leave a voicemail saying something important came up lol.....when he go to blowing up my phone
Jess·
@mberjuste5, his father lives 3 hours away and he's suppose to have him home by 630 on Sunday's. So he's just totally blowing him off tomorrow because he has to leave his house at 9 to be her by 12
chelle berjus·
Многодетная мама (5 детей)
@missjess screenshots his texts when he do crap like this...or record ur convo ..let him know always ...by saying for the record..or on the record ...blah blah etc when u recordin ur convo with him
Jess·
@mberjuste5, well it's kind of not fair to me! Like I need a break from my son. I love him with every fiber of my being but I take care of him 24/7 all by myself unless I'm at work then my parents baby sit. Otherwise it's me. And he's a handful lately. So I need time to regroup you know. And his dad is just a shmuck and thinks he can just do whatever he wants cause he's not a real full time parent he's just a whenever. And of course I'll be here to take care of him because I'm a good mom and that's what us mothers do! But he's such a dead beat father.
Jess·
@mberjuste5, he'll just throw in my face that he " had to work" which is a bold face lie. No court system works on a Sunday! He works for the government but he said he has to be in court this week for his job. And this is the second time he has said on a Sunday he has had to to get out of visitation with our son.