Thoughts?? My s/o has 4 weeks paid leave left and he wants to use 2 for our son's 1st bday and the other 2 to go to…
Thoughts?? My s/o has 4 weeks paid leave left and he wants to use 2 for our son's 1st bday and the other 2 to go to Amsterdam! Note: I can not go, and even if I was able to i wouldn't, I have reponsiblities. Well he wants to use his fmla to go out the country kid free, and baby mama free. And I'm kinda like are you serious? That time belongs to your family not for your selfish wants and needs.. He wants to go so bad, fine go! But I'll de damn if you use up the time that belongs to your son.. get yourself enough vacations hours if you want to go so damn bad,its called family leave, not fucking vacation. I think he's hitting an early mid life crisis I swear.. He will be 30 this year and I don't think he's likes knowing he's getting old!!! All I know is he ain't going, his fmla expires in August and I'm making sure the time is spent with us, not in another damn country. I'm livid guys!!!
M ·
Мама сына (5 лет)
Mama you are absolutely right. It should be spent with his family ❤️
Eryka·
You’re right he should spend it doing something special with y’all, why Amsterdam? Can he go on a smaller family vacation with you and the babies instead?
Leslie. C·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@aydensmommabear im going to have a talk with him about it. He wants to be out there 2 weeks with his brothers for what you guessed it the WEED!! Again livid
Leslie. C·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@eryka616 and he is don't get me wrong he just took 2 weeks off to take us on a family Disneyland trip this Wednesday. But I'm still pissed that he feels like it's okay to just make bug decisions like that without even talking to me about it first. And he wants to go there with his brothers for the WEED! He will be gone 2 weeks, no reponsiblities no anything.. And all free time pretending to childless and single. We mother never get any days off and for him to think it's okay to just go to another country for 2 weeks and leave his family. I'm not okay with that, he's not going and idc what his fucking family says. Their so damn opinionated I can already tell their going to come at me..but I don't give af it's not about me being able to go or even wanting to go. It's about him using time that belongs to his kids
kammy·
Мама сына (1 год)
Lol there's weed here... such a lame reason to travel. I agree he should use his paid time with family.
M ·
Мама сына (5 лет)
@kambam, I heard the weed there is way bettter or something like that
kammy·
Мама сына (1 год)
All weed is the same 😂there's bad weed and better weed, outdoor, indoor. Same shit its one plant. But there's a different culture there. They smoke in cafe settings. @aydensmommabear
M ·
Мама сына (5 лет)
@lezlie527, I agree with you 100%
M ·
Мама сына (5 лет)
@kambam, basically anywhere huh.. I heard once something about Amsterdam and weed but could not remember
kammy·
Мама сына (1 год)
Its just a social thing there. Everyone gets their blunts and coffee in the morning and goes about their day. Nothing special. But Amsterdam also has the red light district with all the prostitutes. @aydensmommabear
M ·
Мама сына (5 лет)
@kambam ohhhh facckkkk 😲😓 then yeah definitely not the place to go spend his family time off 😏
kammy·
Мама сына (1 год)
Def not. He gotta make his own time @aydensmommabear
Deleted·
Oh hell no. Gotta throw the whole man aways
Asya ♡·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@kambam i was gonna say its nt all about the weed either w the red light district bt i agree @lezlie527 he should be spending his time w yall. If he wants the weed that bad tell him there will be cafes opening soon all across America.
c. g·
@lezlie527 you are right hun❤
Adri M·
Мама сына (4 года)
Kidnap him away from his family.
Isn’t that what his excuse was to you.