When you think your dad wanted to come to help pick out a wedding dress he decides to tell you hes not coming bc he…

When you think your dad wanted to come to help pick out a wedding dress he decides to tell you hes not coming bc he doesnt want to and doesnt think his opinion matters. I literally wanted to cry on the phone, but instead i said okay well my maid of honor will be there. I even told him his opinion does matter like wtf. Most dads would enjoy that day bc it's a special day besides her wedding, but nope. I seriously think he doesnt want to come.

@mammyoftwo i asked him if hed give me away he doesnt answer. Youd thibk hed be happy for me. I understand i did everything backwards, but the fact that im still with my fiance and kids father after 7 years should say something to him. But of course his opinion is i shouldnt get married bc if it doesnt work out it could get ugly. Ive explained to him that my fiance and i have those discussions if we didn't work out what we would do, but our main focus is our wedding. I just think he doesnt want to hear it

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@charmed040309, oh crikey, parents look too much into it, as hard as it is I just wouldn’t involve him in anything else to do with this wedding, then watch his response of being annoyed as he’s not an important person in it, no matter what he does or says now not like yous are gonna change your mind and not have the wedding so he should deffo be happy 😕

Amanda Bates16.01.2018

@mammyoftwo thanks i definitely will do that. He knows i have a backup if he decides not to walk me down, which im sure hurt his feelings, but oh well. I never asked y he didnt want me to get married other than im assuming its bc i won't be his little girl anymore and bc hes been married 4 times. Like sorry you lost me after you called cps on me twice.

Mariah16.01.2018

My dad didn't want to give me away. So I had my step son's give me away as a sign of them accepting me as their second mom. My dad was our photographer though.

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

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I know the decision comes down to what I want, but I’d like some opinions. I was planning on giving my child my last…

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