This girl I'm friends with on FB had a miscarriage and is now pregnant again and still very early in her pregnancy and…
This girl I'm friends with on FB had a miscarriage and is now pregnant again and still very early in her pregnancy and is worried and everyone is like oh I did this and this and my baby is fine. I'm like just remember that just cause someone else baby was ok doesn't mean another is. Like i ate stuff I wasn't suppose to like sandwich meat and drank caffiene up to a certain point and etc but I wouldn't recommend these things to others especially someone who just had a miscarriage! People saying basically you can do everything you want and eat whatever as long as you don't do drugs or drink you are fine I'm like talk to your doctors follow there guide lines, stay healthy and follow your own instincts on what you feel is best. That's what I did and it's ok to worry as all us pregnant moms do! I did until my son was out of me! Constantly worried I'd have a miscarriage or something was wrong even right up till the end. It's normal. I don't like people giving bad advice! That's why I told her to talk to her doctors and listen to them and her own self and she should be fine.
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Exactly. The whole my child is fine bullshit irritates me. Just because your child survived it, doesnt make the shit okay. I survived not wearing a seat belt as a kid. You think ima try that shit today. Hell no, drunk drivers and high drivers and distracted drivers and cant drivers everywhere smh
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Мама сына (1 год)
Yes! Sooo important to do your own research!
Jess·
@beemommyof3, exactly! Pregnancy is a scary ass thing and things can be fine one second and go down hill very quickly. For whatever reasons. It's best to follow doctors advice on what you should and shouldn't do not what other people tell you. If you choose to do something you shouldn't then that's you taking a risk but don't give that advice to someone else saying oh well my child is fine. I mean in some cases a good portion of good do turn out fine BUT a small % don't that's why they advise against it. And I'm not going to tell this poor girl who was heartbroken over her miscarriage to go make a giant hogie sub and chow down cause my son turned out healthy.
Jess·
@samanthaann, yes!