So mother’s that DO/DID the CIO method how long did it take ? It’s gonna be so hard for me to hear him cry but it needs to be done!!
Again , DONT COMMENT ON MY POST TELLING ME HES TO YOUNG , MY CHILD & I WILL DO AS I PLEASE AS HIS MOTHER 🤗😘
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Racial nickname I sometimes call my lo monkey. To me he looks like a little monkey. My so says it's racist and offensive. What do you think?
Trigger. Lost baby Went in for my 20 week check up and found out our son had passed away. Nothing was wrong, my pregnancy has been going great. I'm so numb right now. I'll he delivering him later this week. I don't want to do this. I don't want to do this. Not before Christmas. How am I'm going to tell my kids?? My dear sweet baby boy. Why did this happen?
My birth story! (It's long lol) This is my little Uriah. I can't explain how much love I feel looking at his face. The pain was completely worth it. So I was awake after watching a movie with my mom and I decided to get some food and go up to dh. After I ate my water broke because I did squats lmao!!! I did 3 squats and on the third one my water burst, that was at 2:43am, I then went down to tell my mom but didn't have any contractions yet. I got to the hospital around 4:15 and at 5 they came and checked me and I was still a 2, they said I had to be monitored for a while and tried to say they were going to start pitocin and I said no. I'm doing this naturally. And they said well how do you plan on doing that, and I said I'll walk around to help myself dilate. So I did that and at 7 I was a 4-5 90% effaced, came back at 11 and I was 7cm 50% effaced, they checked at 12:30 and I was 8cm 0% and then at 1:30 I was 8-9 0%. So she had me turn on my side because my cervix was sitting up high on my right side. I had two strong contractions laying on my left side and then he dropped and my body started pushing without me doing it. They had me lay on my back as I was a 10 and they could see his head and I did two big long pushes and he was out! Did immediate skin to skin for two hours and he nursed the whole time. ?? Also if it wasn't for dh I would have probably tried to get up and go home and say forget it we aren't having a baby today lmao! I went from crying from contractions at 7cm to being able to breathe through them so quietly and calmly that they didn't hurt as bad at even 9cm. My mom rubbed my back for me the whole time and I'll forever be grateful to her for doing that. I'm so happy with my little prince and his daddy just cried when he saw him. So much love in that room.
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He's 6 months, that's not too young. If her were 6 days now...
Anyway. My son took to it right away. My daughter took maybe a week or so.
Nissa Smith🤰🏾·
It took my son one time and he cried like 2 hours. Afterwards we were fine.
t 👑·
@badadvicemom, I’ve been told before by multiple people he was and I hate it .. I originally was going to start around 1 but every night is a struggle 😅 thank you!
t 👑·
@mommy.of.two, how old ?
Nissa Smith🤰🏾·
@tiffanyf, we used the method when he went in his own room at night. He was 9 months and I put on head phones and listened to music (I felt so guilty) while I watched him cry on his monitor. Every night after was fine even the transition to toddler bed
t 👑·
@mommy.of.two, I know I feel like shit having to do it and I’m dreading it already 😭 but he’s already in his own room/crib .. thank you girl !
Emily·
Мама двоих (младенец)
Sleep consultant told me to start at six months so it's all good. I could never follow through with my first and probably won't with this one lol but I was told to go in every five minutes, out the pacifier in , run their heard and "shhhhh" them
Emily·
Мама двоих (младенец)
Put**
Emily·
Мама двоих (младенец)
*rub lol sorry I'm sleep deprived
Emily·
Мама двоих (младенец)
Omg *HEAD good lord help me 😂😂🤦🏼♀️
Heather ·
I have sleep trained 3 sets of twins plus 3 of my own kids. They all started at six months. The twins all learned after a few times. I just keep going in and soothe them without picking them up. As soon as you pick them up it’s game over.
Queen Bitch·
I can’t follow through with it. But we started around six months. My son is especially stubborn though and we are still working on it. I still always let him fuss 5-10 minutes before i go get him
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My 1 year old started at 9-10 months about 10-15 mins he was out it took like 3 days. And then his dad came home and screwed up everything now hes used to sleeping in our bed again.
_Sheriee·
Мама двоих (младенец)
I did it at a year, but after a week she took to it. I didn't really let her cry very long. If she fussed that was fine but once she started crying and screaming, I would wait about two minutes and if it continued id go in and lay her back down or put my hand on her for a couple seconds to calm her down with no words or lights then walk out again.
lauren·
We did it at 6 months and it took about 3 nights but each night got less crying and he is a great sleeper at night