So it’s been a while since I posted anything and right now I’m just trying to move forward. Josiah’s father is blocked…
So it’s been a while since I posted anything and right now I’m just trying to move forward. Josiah’s father is blocked off my phone, he was only able to reach me off google Duo. He’s claimed he was too busy to help out with Si, still hasn’t done anything for him and has refused to make a steady co-parenting schedule. Every conversation we would have it just consists of him throwing up in my face that we aren’t together and we aren’t getting back together, I can’t have him, and I’m bitter etc. The thing is I don’t ask him for anything, I don’t call him, or text him anything about us being together....he’d always bring it up and it pissed me off because I’m just trying to co-parent and keep him involved with our son. But honestly I’m at a point now to where I don’t see a point communicating with him. I’ve literally been doing everything for my son on my own while he has done nothing. He’s let his family disrespect me, joined them in harassing me, and now I’m just tired. I’ve tried to co parent and that’s all I wanted from him but the constant “we aren’t together and you can’t have me” crap is super annoying. Am I wrong for cutting him out?
Beonka·
Мама сына (1 год)
@beemommyof3, I think so too because it’s no reason for him to keep bringing it up
Beonka·
Мама сына (1 год)
I get what you’re saying because my mom kept my from my dad due to bitterness but the difference here is my dad was actually trying to be in my life full time. My son’s father doesn’t do anything for our son, barely gets him, barely calls and I’m all for working together as Co-Parents but all he wants to do is throw in my face that “We aren’t together” I get it and I accepted it and yeah it hurts but I’m trying to put my feelings about the relationship aside and co-parent our son. All he wants is to remind me about our relationship and he’s doing more of that than he’s doing co-parenting and I see no point in us communicating if that’s all he wants to do
Buddhist Mama·
Мама четверых детей
@beezy_mcflyy um no. He is the father of your child and just because you two can't get along doesn't mean you should stop trying to set an example for your kids. Sorry but you should just get over it and start being the better person. Kids are sponges and you don't want your child resenting you because you can't get along with dad. I grew up like that. And my mom and I don't have a relationship now. The dad she tried keeping out if my life talks to me regularly and I haven't talked to my mom in years.
Beonka·
Мама сына (1 год)
@believeinbuddha, yeah....or completely remove myself from the situation
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@beezy_mcflyy Exactly my point. He must feel some type of way because he keeps bringing it up. Obviously he feels different then what he is saying
Beonka·
Мама сына (1 год)
@beemommyof3, I’ve tried keeping an open line of communication with him but it’s like he’s so focused on letting me know it’s over. I’ve accepted it but I’m just trying to co-parent but he just keeps at it. I don’t bring up our relationship...he does....and at this point it’s starting to piss me off because I’m making it about our son and he just keeps ranting about that 😡😡
Buddhist Mama·
Мама четверых детей
The best advice anyone can give you is to kill him with kindness
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To be honest. Those are his feels, he is trying to make you feel guilty about it. I wouldnt contact him at all. I would let him contact me and if it isnt about the baby then we aren't speaking