I am at my whits end with my mother y’all..
It’s like every time I want to go out, without my kids, she has to make it a big deal! Asks me so many questions, and tells me I shouldn’t go cause I have kids..
Well when I do go out, they stay with their father.. it’s like she has a problem with them being with him when he isn’t a bad father. He watches them when I go out. So I don’t understand what my mothers problem is..
Last night, I get ready to go to my friends house, she comes out before I leave and tells me “don’t you have kids to watch” which made me so mad.. I wanted to snap, instead I just said “they’re fine” and left. Now I have my kids 24/7 y’all, so I do take care of my kids! Every day, all day.
She makes the most negative comments to me, and I’m just so tired of it.. I’m 21.. with kids, and pregnant.. I know what my priorities are but damn it I do deserve some me time! With or without friends. 😣
She drives me crazy, I love her so much.. but this is getting ridiculous no matter how many times I talk to her about how she needs to stop, she doesn’t. I’m sick of it. One of these days, she’s not gonna like it when I shut her out.
What would you do if your mom was this way???
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@theloveofamotherof2, I really want tooo.. I want to move out
@brookemmoore, it’s my brother in law’s and sister’s house we share and my kids dad and I pay rent, but she hasn’t paid shit
Why are you living with her? Does the father live there too?
I would shut her out. All that negativity would just drain me
@sassymomof3, that’s sad that she doesn’t have her own place.
Of course I don’t know your mom but I would never recommend shutting your mom out for two main reasons. 1) I know what it’s like to lose your mom completely unexpected and never get to make amends then find out later, from her diaries, that she thought you didn’t love her. It’s a horrible thing to have to live with. 2) my oldest is 18 and he moved out to live with his girlfriend the day he graduated high school. He lives 45 minutes away from me so I rarely ever see him. It’s so hard just not having him in my everyday life anymore. It would literally kill me if he shut me out completely.
You definitely need space between y’all. It’s never easy to live with a parent and a SO with kids at the same time. That’s a lot of stress for everyone. If she has no means to go anywhere else I would be looking for a way to start my family in my own place.