I am at my whits end with my mother y’all..

It’s like every time I want to go out, without my kids, she has to make it a big deal! Asks me so many questions, and tells me I shouldn’t go cause I have kids..

Well when I do go out, they stay with their father.. it’s like she has a problem with them being with him when he isn’t a bad father. He watches them when I go out. So I don’t understand what my mothers problem is..

Last night, I get ready to go to my friends house, she comes out before I leave and tells me “don’t you have kids to watch” which made me so mad.. I wanted to snap, instead I just said “they’re fine” and left. Now I have my kids 24/7 y’all, so I do take care of my kids! Every day, all day.

She makes the most negative comments to me, and I’m just so tired of it.. I’m 21.. with kids, and pregnant.. I know what my priorities are but damn it I do deserve some me time! With or without friends. 😣

She drives me crazy, I love her so much.. but this is getting ridiculous no matter how many times I talk to her about how she needs to stop, she doesn’t. I’m sick of it. One of these days, she’s not gonna like it when I shut her out.

What would you do if your mom was this way???