Mommies that had to deal with recovery alone! Was it harder for you to do? Im have my last c section on january 3rd and also my tubes tied, but since me and the father wont be living together and there is no one around that is gonna help me with my babies. Will it take me longer to recover? Or will my mommy instincts kick in and i will be fine! My daughter is a year old and weighs in at 30 pounds. I know i cant lift that after surgery so what am i gonna do? Have any of you did it with no help