Ok so not using actual numbers.. But everyone knows I'm over weight since having my girls. It's no secret. BUT i was talking with my hubby last night and idk how we got to this but he said something like (not using actual numbers) no one should weigh 800lbs, they should take care of themselves. And i said so what if someone weighs 800lbs? He said no one should weigh that, they should be healthier. I said well i almost weigh 800! I'm in the 790s. And I'm healthy. I may be overweight but i don't have any diseases, no high cholesterol, no high blood pressure, i don't have a bad heart, lungs, or anything else. So I'm healthy I'm just over weight. So then we argued about him having an issue with my weight.. Am i wrong in this? Because it really hurt my feelings.. I've tried sooo many different things to lose weight but having hypothyroidism makes you gain/hard to lose. And my medications for depression and anxiety cause you to gain also.. So it's very hard to lose weight.. But i didn't even know he had an issue with my weight until last night..
Okay so I have a question for you ladies. Before my boyfriend and I were dating, we were bestfriends for a while. We always hung out but we never tried dating. Well I was dating this guy for a while, and got pregnant and he told me he wanted nothing to do with it, and told me to kill it. I would NEVER do such a thing. So he broke up with me and moved to Indy. Well when I told my friend, he said he would help me. Well we spent so much time together, that we fell in love. Yes I fell in love with my bestfriend. We are now dating and he is SOOO into the pregnancy! He is even going go adopt the baby. His friends all know, and his parents just found out. How do you explain to his family that yes it's not biologically his, but it is still? You know what I'm saying ? Lol. He is the one who was with me though all of this and he will be here for baby too. I just feel like a whore, I know I'm not... But still. Help !
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
I feel like all you girls on here hate me 😔 so I'm gonna delete this app ✌
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Мама сына-младенца, беременна (32 нед.)
- What evening does he want ?
Brittany Roberts ·
Мама дочки (1 год)
@beccaaalynnn11, he doesn't really show interest in having a quiet evening
Brittany Roberts ·
Мама дочки (1 год)
@beccaaalynnn11, I agree he will every now and then but it's only like when he wants something. And he is so sarcastic anymore idk wether he tells the truth or is being sarcastic. And we've got on the topic of him being mean and now he is saying that's him just giving constructive criticism. I mean I understand that but your supposed to be my significant other. And support me. Not drag me down.
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Мама сына-младенца, беременна (32 нед.)
- Did you tell him you'd like a nice quiet evening at home? Popcorn and a movie? No real money spent ?
Do you feel like he doesn't love you anymore ? I felt like that with my first pregnancy, the entire time. Even though he did all sorts of things to help me. FEELING APPRECIATED IS IMPORTANT.
Brittany Roberts ·
Мама дочки (1 год)
@beccaaalynnn11, he says I am the one that makes myself feel that way! And that he does appreciate me. And that it's not smart to go out and spend money because of the house. I understand that BUT.....he could something
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Мама сына-младенца, беременна (32 нед.)
- And what did he say ? How'd he respond ?
Brittany Roberts ·
Мама дочки (1 год)
@beccaaalynnn11, yes several times
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Мама сына-младенца, беременна (32 нед.)
- Have you told him this ?