LONG ASS POST 💥💥 but need advice 😢
LONG ASS POST 💥💥 but need advice 😢
So it's been 3 weeks since I've been staying at my parents house while my mom is helping out with Angelo since I'm on bed rest.... the only reason i left my place to come to my parents is cause we only rent a small bedroom (no place for Angelos crib) and I was constantly having to hover over him , picking him up off the floor or making sure he didnt crawl off the bed. There was no room whatsoever ...
My hubby was and still is upset because he can't be with us every day , but he has yet to realize its better for the health of me and our unborn son .
Is it wrong to not go back to that shitty room? I told him once he gets an apartment that I'll move back in, but he says a "wife doesn't leave her husband when things get rough"
Which I totally agree with , but at the same time , living in that box of room is no way to raise 1 almost 2 children....
Ughh 😔😔
Claudia Flores ·
Мама сына-младенца, беременна (36 нед.)
@damiensmommy1117 thanks girl , and I know it sucks.. and it's so hard to find something affordable with only 1 income since I doubt I'll be working after the baby's here
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I can totally relate.. My studio is like that, we have a hot plate, but it literally takes twenty minutes to cook a single pancake. It's pathetic. I'm really wondering if we'll get out of here before my son starts crawling... I'm glad you are in a better place for now. He needs to grow up and get busting his butt if he wants to live with you again so badly.
Claudia Flores ·
Мама сына-младенца, беременна (36 нед.)
@blessed_mommy6 thank you , I know it's the right decision, i just wish my hubby would understand that its better for our son's until he can get us a bigger place .
Ruby Weber·
Мама четверых детей
Oh wow. You did a great job than by doing what you did
Claudia Flores ·
Мама сына-младенца, беременна (36 нед.)
@blessed_mommy6 yeah just a small room with a bathroom, no kitchen or nothing, and we only had a fridge and microwave, no stove to actually cook good meals
Ruby Weber·
Мама четверых детей
Were you guys just renting a room out or something before?
Karolina·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (38 нед.)
I think you're in the right cause you need a stable place for your kids not live in a box plus you get help. He shouldn't be selfish and should know that's what's best for now
Claudia Flores ·
Мама сына-младенца, беременна (36 нед.)
@eryka616 there is room , and him and my parent dont get along , so he isn't welcomed here 😑
@kambam and yes he's trying to find us a place but so far he hasn't found one in our price range and close enough to my mom's
kammy·
Мама сына (1 год)
So what? Is he gonna get a place for you guys or not? 😠 you haven't abandoned him how selfish is he. Glad you made the choice to put your kids in a better environment. Sorry he isn't mature enough to see it.
Eryka·
Мама дочки (1 год)
Is there room at your parents for you and your kids? Can he come stay at your parents with you?