LONG ASS POST 💥💥 but need advice 😢
So it's been 3 weeks since I've been staying at my parents house while my mom is helping out with Angelo since I'm on bed rest.... the only reason i left my place to come to my parents is cause we only rent a small bedroom (no place for Angelos crib) and I was constantly having to hover over him , picking him up off the floor or making sure he didnt crawl off the bed. There was no room whatsoever ...
My hubby was and still is upset because he can't be with us every day , but he has yet to realize its better for the health of me and our unborn son .
Is it wrong to not go back to that shitty room? I told him once he gets an apartment that I'll move back in, but he says a "wife doesn't leave her husband when things get rough"
Which I totally agree with , but at the same time , living in that box of room is no way to raise 1 almost 2 children....
Ughh 😔😔
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I can totally relate.. My studio is like that, we have a hot plate, but it literally takes twenty minutes to cook a single pancake. It's pathetic. I'm really wondering if we'll get out of here before my son starts crawling... I'm glad you are in a better place for now. He needs to grow up and get busting his butt if he wants to live with you again so badly.
@blessed_mommy6 thank you , I know it's the right decision, i just wish my hubby would understand that its better for our son's until he can get us a bigger place .
Oh wow. You did a great job than by doing what you did
@blessed_mommy6 yeah just a small room with a bathroom, no kitchen or nothing, and we only had a fridge and microwave, no stove to actually cook good meals
Were you guys just renting a room out or something before?
I think you're in the right cause you need a stable place for your kids not live in a box plus you get help. He shouldn't be selfish and should know that's what's best for now
@eryka616 there is room , and him and my parent dont get along , so he isn't welcomed here 😑
@kambam and yes he's trying to find us a place but so far he hasn't found one in our price range and close enough to my mom's
So what? Is he gonna get a place for you guys or not? 😠 you haven't abandoned him how selfish is he. Glad you made the choice to put your kids in a better environment. Sorry he isn't mature enough to see it.
Is there room at your parents for you and your kids? Can he come stay at your parents with you?
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
some of the stuff I see on here, like rooms, beds, houses, etc is disgusting! you claim you're a sahm and your husband works hard, then help him out and let him come home to a clean house, bed, sheets, etc🤷🏻♀️
I feel like the worst mom ever
So it's is 230 and I wake up to my son screaming. We co sleep and I KNOW he was in between my husband and I. He was in the middle of the bed when I went to sleep. I KNOW that I fed him off my left side. I don't sleep walk. I didn't get up. My husband didn't get up. Yet somehow my son fell off the bed onto the floor. ? it's maybe two feet high and carpet but I feel so bad. He isn't old enough to crawl over me or crawl at all. He barely can roll from his back to be...
Nothing like finding out your husband lied about where he was last night. I guess that will be a fun conversation when he gets up today. But idk when that will be since he went to bed at 6 something this morning. Also found out he added a girl on his snapchat that I don't know. Just really need to find something that will keep my mind off of all of this until I can talk to him about it. 😞
I been off my birth control pills since April this year
@damiensmommy1117 thanks girl , and I know it sucks.. and it's so hard to find something affordable with only 1 income since I doubt I'll be working after the baby's here