I'm furious. I just got a job finally. Started on the 8th at chick fil a in the mall. Full time, great benefits and…

You should leave your husband.

@rikki.ferguson one of the reasons why I got a job to save up and go. I get that comment a lot

@j_erin well I'm glad that's what you're doing

@rikki.ferguson I'm just so tired....

@j_erin things will be better before long dear. Keep your chin up. Is he taking good care of your daughter and playing with her while you're at work?

ID stop doingbit for a day and see if he steps up he isn't ganna notice until he wakes up to no clean fishes laundry act.

@rikki.ferguson I have no idea. I do check the formula bowl for when we go out, and the can that is open to make sure she is eating. I came home to her eating apples with peanut butter. She's barely four months. I know he lets her lay down while playing games and watching tv. She cries so he can cuddle her. When she feels him moving like he's playing his games she cries and makes him stop. Even she is fed up with his crap. I'm the only one playing with her to my knowledge

@j_erin that poor baby girl. Is there not anyone to help you get out of there sooner?

@rikki.ferguson no I have no one

@j_erin I'm sorry.

I'm so sorry you're in this situation, that's just awful of him. Feel free to ignore this if you just wanted to vent without advice, but it might change things if you just didn't do the tasks you want him to take over. It sucks because you have to live there too, but just stop. Or, at least, stop doing the things that help him. Cook 1 person meals just for you (or better, eat at work). Do your laundry, but not his. Clean your side of the room, but not his. Make it uncomfortable and hard for him to continue to keep doing nothing. It might mean putting up with some messes in the short term, but hopefully it will get him off his butt in the long term. I hope things get better for you quickly!

@sarahmartinez817 thank you so much. I need all the comfort and advice I can get

@sarahmartinez817, great advice!

Also, go get NCI.. it's child care that the state pays for. Apply for section 8. Apply for cash benefit. Single mothers can get everything from the state. One condition for all, leave your husband and put him on child support. Is the apartment in your name or his?

i would be pissed!😠... i would tell him ok you are paying for daycare. i would say either clean the house and help, or go get a job and pay for daycare.! then when you both get off of work its a joint effort. then he has to help u.😉 hope u get some rest. it will work out.:)

@kkmamax2 we have an rv we live in

@alexandriahill08 he won't because daycare is expensive and he won't agree to getting wto to help pay for daycare

he wont agree to getting what?

and yea it is expensive..

he needa to help u girl. or leave him: / :)

my first kids dad was like that and i left him when my son was a few months old .cuz he only cared about himself amd didnt acknowledged us or work or nothing. his dad paid our rent.. i was like f this im out n and i left 😃 best thing i ever did. for me and my son.

keep your head up. sry i guess i could of messages u direct.🤔🙂

He sounds like dead weight. I wouldn't do ANYTHING for him. Wash your clothes and the baby's. Cook for yourself and the baby.. Maybe he will get the hint.

And throw his game out the window. What a shit