I was so excited about my wedding but because of my mom, now I'm not. She's caused me to be depressed in what are…
I was so excited about my wedding but because of my mom, now I'm not. She's caused me to be depressed in what are supposed to be the happiest days of my life, my wedding and my baby girl. I decided after my wedding that I am distancing myself from her, I can't take much more
Mimi·
So sorry this is happening you deserve happiness 💜
Dez·
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That may be best for u cuz u should be happy planning ur wedding and such. U don't need that kind of negativity in ur life
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Мама дочки-младенца
@skysmommy04 @lillyb thank you. She's only gotten worse since my daughter was born
Dez·
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U have some much to be happy about she doesn't need to be dragging u down. I'm sorry u have to deal with this love
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Мама дочки-младенца
@lillyb im just over her bs
Dez·
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I'm sure
Marilu·
Don't let ANYONE do that to you. My exes family tried to change my whole wedding. I stuck to my guns except one thing but I refused to let it drag me down. Or their behavior at that time. It's YOUR wedding. YOUR time to be happy! Do as you wish and tell her to respect you and stop dragging you down. Please be happy and enjoy this time!
Jazmin Pagan·
My mom isn't talking to me either. This will be my 2nd pregnancy and Mama doesn't doesn't talk to me. She did it with my son who's almost 2... she made me feel like trash ... I'm sorry your going through it .... I know I cry a lot over it bc me and her are super tight.
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Мама дочки-младенца
@morganmommy79 i did end up doing that but unfortunately i shouldve done it sooner
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Мама дочки-младенца
@epic.726 ya im not understanding why they woupd act this way
Jazmin Pagan·
@twinpeanut, I have come to the conclusion that they project their fears and what they have done wrong in the past (in their lives ) on to our current situation. I'm hoping she comes around again but who knows..
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Мама дочки-младенца
@epic.726 i see this as true as well esp with what shes told me
Jazmin Pagan·
What did she tell you ?
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Мама дочки-младенца
@epic.726 that she regrets not spending every moment she could have with me and that she knows she wasn't the best mom. She sees my daughter as a second chance to parent. I told her that no, this is MY turn to parent MY daughter but i want her to be the grandma
Jazmin Pagan·
Oh man. I wish my mom would even communicate, she hasn't said anything since I told her. It's been about a week. I understand your frustration though ; she can be a grandma and spoil that baby rotten :)