We've been looking at houses... because our rent is almost double what a house payment would be... however, because rent is SO high it's hard to save money for a down payment... so I've been looking at going back to work... found several jobs that are perfect... but then I priced child care... and I'd only be bringing home about $150 a week after that! 🙄😓 sooo... basically, there is no point... I could get a part time job in the evenings and weekends, and being home that much! ☹️
My cousin got the USDA Home Loan. Shit ton of paper work, though, and waiting. But....no down payment.
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@bluepenguin, thanks... I mean we are doing fine... we have all our needs met, and budget for extra stuff... but I'm not use to not being able to contribute! I really want to bring in some income, put extra money in savings... so we can get a place... it's just hard being dependent on someone else! 🤦♀️😅 I've worked since I was 10!
@shellbell0391, yeah we've looked into FHA... but the houses that would qualify, start around $200K, and that's not going to save us much monthly... unless we move about an hour out of town, then we could afford it... but all the houses go quickly... so we need to make sure we have cash handy! It's just frustrating... sigh... we will eventually figure it out!
@dreamermom oh my goodness :( hopefully you get a better living situation for your financial situation. I wish things were more affordable 😐
@bluepenguin, yeah we are paying $1200 a month... and rent goes up about $100/mo every year we are here! 😞... cost of living has went up 15% each year... my husband's max raise is 4% every year... so we've been going 11% backwards, each year... and in the 3 years we have lived here... we have had 2 kids... 😂🤦♀️ so that's not helped the financial situation!
FHA! Only 3.5% down. Plus there are other loans that only require a small down payment. Ask a mortgage lender!
We are in the same boat! Trying to find an apartment with two rooms
About $1000 or under is nearly impossible over here...all great priced apartments are in the midst of the bad neighborhoods 😛
I'm working two jobs right now and my baby boy is with my SIL but I feel like I'm barely bringing anything home....:/
@bmndz95, no, we are looking to buy a house, but where I live there are SO many people moving here (like 100+ people a day) rent is stupid high... and houses stay on the market sometimes less than 24 hours

Guys if I was looking at a place to rent on Craigslist and I go to click on the ad again and this pops up does that mean it's a scam?? I need to know because my boyfriend and I have been talking to the person !!


I don’t think we would have been able to move if I didn’t have my stay at home job, we would still be in a neighborhood with our house getting broken into. I’m so thankful and blessed to have found a legit home job so my kids don’t have to go to day care, counting my blessings daily
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I have been a stay at home mom for 9 months and I absolutely HATE IT! I want a job, I need to get out of this house. but we can't afford 800$ daycare each month on top of 1,000$ rent. I'm losing it and my husband is too. I have no idea what to do. we cant live off one paycheck. but I can't work without childcare, but if we can't afford childcare than how am I suppose to work?! I'm so lost.
Good morning ladies. Sorry I been ignoring yall but I have been so miserable the past days I'M STILL PREGNANT my contractions would be strong for hours and it looked like I was gonna have a baby then everything just stopped so I got sent home. they said I have to wait till my appointment Wednesday so I can talk to my doctor about the next step. I HATE THIS 😢😢😩
So we have no food in our house and no money so whatever we had I let my husband and kids eat. I'm so hungry. I haven't eaten since yesterday. I wish we weren't so behind on rent. Next week we have to pay our phone bill and the week after we have to pay rent again. I'm so sick on not being able to have food in our home.
You should check the county you want to live in. Some have first time home buyer classes and at the end of the class you get a down payment grant. My county had them once a quarter. It's better to do when closer to the beginning of the year to ensure they don't run out of money.