Okay tell me if im wrong so when I first found out I was pregnant my sister and I went to the wic place to get wic and while we were there we saw a program for young moms so of course I signed up for free now the lady they had in charge Ms. Viani was my lady I told her every thing about my ex about the past and she really helped me basically all through my pregnancy until they fired her in my third trimester why idk so they gave her job to Ms. Jones and I was like in not telling her my background idk her I don't feel comfortable around her so In the program you take like 7 classes and get carseats and pack n plays so I completed the classes you know so I can make sure the twins were okay when they come and I'm like okay I have the carseats so when do I get the pack n plays and they tell me when the twins are born my mom and I looked at them like wtf you didn't say this at first. Anyways there's nothing I could do about it but now they want to be in the room with me Friday when I give birth and I Dont know them but I don't want to be rude because my babies need those packnplays. I don't know how to say no don't come but I'm trying to find a good way of saying it. But they can see them when we come home so I can get my stuff for my kids all at once lol not playing the only people I need and want in my room is my momma and sister anyone else that isn't family will get there feeling hurt because I'm so not nice in pain but my family knows that so they are straight but I can't with anyone else I'm sorry. I think there best bet is to come when im out of the hospital so I pretend to like them. What do yall think?
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Thanks you guys for giving me options and trust me I am going to use them because it's ridiculous to me to ill let y'all know how everything turns out
@rozrod ima do that one lol so then the nurses can do the dirty work instead of me
@lexieelovee0329 I guess they are supposed to be like doulas girl idk.
@deannatullis20 I don't think they should hold that against u or start crying and be like I want ms. Viani lol no jokes aside ask the hospital if they have a limit of people in the room, if yes ur fine tell them the hospital only allows 2 people. If they says no tell them u only want 2 people for them to kick anyone else out.
@rozrod girl I wish but ion wanna risk them getting mad and not giving me the packnplays
That's wierd, I wouldn't want anyone from any program in the room while I'm giving birth. That's a private and special moment. I'd tell them you don't feel comfortable with anyone in the room other than your mom and sister and that you will let them know as soon as you are being discharged. Also congrats on your twins!
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