@gee07, that is really true.

@yamiixx, but I guess t depends on how much effort both parties put into making it work. If u see no effort in the person that cheated no point in sticking around.

@yamiixx, trust is a huge deal for me. I could not live peacefully with all the insecurities that brings.

Me & my bf cheated each other b4 I was pregnant, but after we found out we was pregnant we been loyal , we are still with each other , but there is still some trust issues , it is just all up to you , if you want to go down that road.

I personally couldn't stay with someone who cheated. There has to be trust in a relationship and I feel like cheating destroys that trust and creates insecurities that lead to the eventual end of the relationship. I couldn't live with knowing my man went out and fucked another girl. No matter what. I really don't see how or why someone would forgive a cheater. Its like you're telling them that it was ok letting them just get away with it by taking them back.