I hate the fact that you have to show people how to act around your child, how to have them respect your wishes. You…

I hate the fact that you have to show people how to act around your child, how to have them respect your wishes. You shouldn't have to do that. People should respect the wishes of parents when it comes to their children. My mom on the other hand thinks that that shouldn't apply to her...... in her words "I've sacrificed so much for y'all I shouldn't have to ask for ANYTHING.. but this isn't my world" uhm .... as a parent aren't you supposed to do all that you can?! I know there are some parents that don't, I'm grateful mine did but I think it's selfish that she thinks she should get her way all of the time when it comes to my child.. we had an agreement and she broke the agreement and basically said I was upset for feeling the way I felt. I don't play when it comes to my baby. I don't care who you are. You don't have a right to see my baby, my SO sees it as a privilege, and honestly I do to. She doesn't respect anything I say or do and the one time I say something it's a problem 😡😡🙄🙄🙄she was supposed to come over today since my husband had work. She told me she had a late night and she may come this afternoon or this evening or tomorrow. We may not be home tomorrow so now it'll be a month since she's seen the baby, not my fault at all, but I'm sure she'll make it seem like it's my fault some way.