Ill have to do that with my fiancee but right now his son can walk and mine is almost there so its not an issue but with this close gap in my son and our daughter its going to challenging but he will help me out during the 6 weeks im off and our mothers will be by to help me out also but its always been the going back to work thought that has scared me even with my last pregnancy.

If he comes home and the house isn't clean then he cleans it

It's a process but I have help from my husband for all of it

In the beginning your husband will have to take care of the house and your other child while you and the baby settle in. After that you just have to have a system. Take care of the baby first and older child second and some days you might have to take care of the older one first then the baby.