@ilovemychildren, I really want it to work! I'm going to continue to try. We started therapy this month so hopefully that helps too. We've only been together a year but my pregnancy was planned (which everyone seems surprised by) lol but we knew what we wanted. Thanks for the feedback I'm going to try to stay positive!

@colombianprincess it takes a lot of hard work to get where we are. Its been two years of us ineffectively communicating before we got to this stage of talking it out. Lots of times where one of us didn't want to communicate. But you work through those times to get to the good ones

@colombianprincess, lol i like it better that way

@rebeccaangleton, I wish I did make all the decisions!!!!

@ilovemychildren, yeah that doesn't work very well for us because our communication sucks. Meaning, I say my opinion and he still makes his decision as if I never said anything. Basically it's like my opinion doesn't matter because he's still going to do whatever he thinks is the right decision

I make like 99% of the decisions and that seems to work well lol

We always communicate throughouhly before we make any decision. Its important to both of us that each of our opinions are heard and understood by the other. Whether its what to get from the grocery store or how to handle arguments in our relationship we always talk it out.