You know he's a piece of shit when he lied and cheated on you, and has all these reasons WHY he cheated. There's no…

I agree 💯 with you @mommytomia_,

It's never their fault. It's going to some how be your fault 🙄 When like you said, At the end of the day they're just cheating pieces of shit.

@karlaesanchez, to cheat on someone before you have a family with them and to cheat on someone after you have a family with them is totally different. Especially when I sacrificed so much for him to live the same life while I couldn't do anything.

@karlaesanchez, exactly. I never said what I did wasn't shitty and I'm definitely not being hypocritical. When I've completely changed and gave him my loyalty and trust and then he decides to cheat on me and our daughter. That's wayyyy worse! Not just that but I'm a good person and a good mother. He's neither a good person or a good dad so I don't know what else to say to you.

i didnt take it as rude but i agree i couldnt be with someone cheating before lr after a family

@mommytomia_, oh im not acting like i know the situation but what you did regardless was shitty as well serious or not if your with someone u owe them that loyalty & vise versa it wasnt right what he did having a family i get that but you cant talk down or be hypicritical u lowkey did the same just didnt have a family yet

@karlaesanchez, and exactly.. two wrongs DONT make a right. Which is why I didn't tolerate it and left his ass. I'm never gonna be that girl who stays with a cheater.. I can do way better and I am so much better off without him. I love my daughter and she's the only reason I still communicate with him so that he can be in her life

@karlaesanchez, I'm sorry for the rant. I didn't mean to come off rude. I'm just really defensive when it comes to that because we were both really really good the last two years while we had a daughter, I went to visit his entire family in a foreign country, etc. but he chose to cheat and lie to me and fuck up our family.

@karlaesanchez, two completely different situations especially when I changed completely and stayed loyal and a good mother to his child while he worked and never gave us a dime and fucked a coworker

@karlaesanchez, we were together for 4 years and in the beginning, we weren't serious nor did I ever imagine a future or a family with him.

@chelseanmicahmathis, thank you hun ! 💓

@karlaesanchez, girl. I know. That's why I gave him the option to break up with me when I cheated and he didn't want to. So we worked things out , regained the trust and everything. Please don't act like you know our situation! It's completely different to cheat after you have a family with someone .

not to be rude serious or not you cheated too right ? imagine hownhe felt? & now youre feeling like hes a piece of shit but you did the same .. sorry but im being real .. but stilkbtwo wrongs dont make it right

@mommytomia_, right! That doesn’t make it okay. You have can’t both. Men can be just pigs, their ego gets them into so much trouble.

@megbaby07, so true 👋🏻🤦🏼‍♀️🙌🏼 thank you! We've been broke up since February when I found out he was cheating but he still texts me to this day trying to get back with me lol no thank you!!!

@chelseanmicahmathis, exactly. He had so many opportunities to break up with me and leave then. He cheated on me with a coworker while I THOUGHT things were going good for us at home :/ but now he's telling me he was sick of all the stress at home!! Are you serious? Lol 😭😭 sorry excuse for a man. That's what he is

Wow the only “excuse” you need is that you can’t be a man and own up or just say no 🤷🏼‍♀️ sorry girl. That shit isn’t okay

@chelseanmicahmathis, 🙄😭 right?! But no, according to him he was tortured being with me for 4 years. And he has the audacity to say it's because he's been through hell with me and I cheated on him (which was WAY before we had a kid or even were serious!!) two completely different situations! He is a piece of shit