I been with my so for almost two years we went through hell and back I'm thinking about leaving her soon but I don't know how it will affect my daughter because she has some attachment issues with her I know she is no good for me officially today we was walking to mcdonalds and I told her I feel like she done sent open up to me and she's like okay like how are we suppose to grow get married if I feel like I'm talking to a blank wall and somebody that knows how to talk to other people but not talk to me
@littleonemorning is right in saying that communication is the most important part of (what I consider) an ideal relationship, and @beebaby is spot on in suggesting counseling. Just because 2 people speak the same language doesn't mean they understand each other. "I don't like peas" "I don't want the peas" "I won't eat the peas" meanwhile one of those statements' underlying message is they're allergic. My husband was initially very against counseling because of the talking and I think it was daunting, but I think it finally got through to him that it's not all about one side. You may have to look around a bit for a counselor you both feel comfortable with