Have your kids ever said they didn't love you? Jackson said it a little while ago and he wouldn't tell me he was just kidding until he knew I was angry. Idk why it's always me who he gets like this with. I do EVERYTHING for him and I'm the one who gets shit on. This is the first time he's made me cry. Feeling so discouraged 😥
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Am I wrong to be upset? Last night I was running a fever, weak, tired, sore, my left boob feels like it got used as a punching bag. I asked my husband to call out of work today to help me with the kid so I could get some rest. He went to work. I texted him this morning. Part of me thinks I mean. The other part of me thinks I was fine for saying that because he should've stayed home with us.
I wish I had a Man by My side who understood the pain of first trimester. So long story short..BD asks Me if I need to pee before He showers I say No. Then after he's in the bathroom for quite sometime he comes out and says he's about to shower..I said I thought You already showered. He said No. Anyway mid shower I have to pee so I text him telling him I have to pee because I dare not knock on the door unless I want to get yelled at and called names. He comes out yelling at Me anyways telling Me he asked Me beforehand I said I didn't have to pee then. Then he goes on to tell Me to hurry up and turn My hotspot on so he can use it. I get up slowly because I'm in a bit of aching this evening then he yells at Me to hurry up..I make My way slowly down the hallway still getting yelled at. I don't know why he thinks I should do anything for him! This is so hard Y'all! I fight back tears every day *darn hormones*
who are you to judge how a woman take care of her kids so what if she gets wic or food stamps or medical assistance that’s none of nobody business i seen to many of these post judging women of how they take care of there kids i’m a single mother of three and if i need assistance that’s my business not anybody else times is hard out here sorry if everybody don’t get help from there husbands or boyfriends or kids father it is single moms out here that is going to make sure there babies eat i said what i said
Rant My SO has been rude a lot ever since I've gotten pregnant...he said he doesn't care about my pregnancy, he doesn't even take one day off from work just ONE to come to at least one ultra sound appointment. I mean he's always making sure I'm fed, he lets use the heating pad, and even apologized to saying he doesn't care. He can mess with me all day but when I want to join and play around he gives me an attitude. He just makes me feel like s*** at times. He's a great fiancé don't get me wrong, but he can really get on my nerves and makes me upset to the point I go to bed earlier than him and cry until I fall asleep. Idk if it's the hormones or something/: I try to be a great fiancé. But I always seem to fail /:
Melissa·
Мама дочки-младенца
Oh mama I'm so sorry. This is always so hard. My daughter is too young for me to have experienced that, however, when my niece was about 4 she said that to me. I have always been very very close to her. I've been in her life since she was a baby. I burst into tears as soon as she said it. My mom was there and said not to worry, that it's a phase and happens with every child. I brought it up about a year ago (she's 11 now), and she looked at me, gasped, and said, "Auntie Shaw, I would NEVER say that to you! I love you!" She didn't even remember. The best thing to do is tell him that you're very sorry to hear that because you love him very much and try not to show emotion. Works like a charm. I know it's hard :( I'm sorry
Noel Perez-White·
Мама дочки (1 год)
Hey 👋🏼 he is just trying to push your buttons! He is too young to honestly understand the impact of his words, I know it's easier said than done but don't let it get to you. If he says it again, just respond "yes you do deep down. Kids always love their mamas, and mamas always love their kids!" And leave it at that even if he argues just laugh it off
Georgia Stone·
Мама сына-младенца
I'm sorry sweet lady. I know that's hard but like other mamas have said he's to young to really know. Act like it doesn't effect you ( I know that is easier said than done) if he thinks it will effect you he will say it and if you act like you don't care then he may give up on saying it
Sara🌺·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@missliss, @teachermama86, thanks ladies, that makes me feel better. He's done this before but was joking about it and attacked me with hugs and kisses afterwords. This time I asked him why he said that and he said "i don't know, I just don't" so coldly. It just struck a nerve. He's napping right now so I'll see what he has to say after he wakes up. Hoping it was just a grumpy tired thing..
Sara🌺·
Мама двоих (младенец)
Thanks @georgiastahl30, 😘
Cassie Hammond 💍💓👨👨👦·
Yep. My son does. When I won't let him have his way, he'll say he doesn't love me or he hates me lol ..