So me & baby father decided today that it would be better to break up due to fighting we are going…

why not couple therapy?

We are to hard headed I guess, we have just let it get to out of hand I think maybe I a little break will help both of us. It's really because we don't see how much the other does..@jerin

don't get custody rights if you still love each other. Fights happens in relationships. Stop being hard headed and work for your family's happiness. It shouldn't end because of arguments. Don't lose your happy family because of issues that can be resolved

If you guys get along pretty well than you could work out a parenting plan together but if you worry about your ex running off with your son then I would definitely go through the courts to work out a custody agreement.

It's not that I worry about him taking off I would just like to have it in writing just to be sure nothing happens or if it does its in paper @goodbyelullabye

I'm going through what you are in a way but we're not agreeing to anything. If you have any questions on anything message me.

My boyfriend and I used to fight all the time. Not so much recently because they got so bad we realized we need to take a step back. They were always over reallt stupid shit that escalated because neither of us knew how to communicate and then the other didn't feel validated and it spiraled out of control. You just need to learn when to talk. If you too want to be together there is no reason to break up. That's like cleaning a dirty plate by throwing it away It's not going to fix anything, it's just avoiding the problem.

@abelsmama16 I would go through the courts then. My ex is a nut so i didn't have choice

It's because you guys are trying to adjust to your new life as parents and partners. Have you tried couple or family counseling .