I love how I repeatedly told my father in law not to let my daughter root through the toy box because she doesn’t want anything out of it anyway and he keeps picking her up and taking her to the toy box no matter how many times I tell her no and tell him she doesn’t even want anything out of there anyway. At first I told him “only let her get one toy” so she picks one up and he is still holding her over the toy box then tries to put her over the baby gate so she can grab more. I’m sorry but you aren’t the one that has to pick up all these toys. You aren’t the one who has to put them back. He never picks up toys. Everyone wants to get the toys out for her out no one ever wants to help me pick them back up. The fact that I said not to let her get anything out of the box more than 5 times really pisses me off. You may be her grandparent but you aren’t her parent. So now I have mass toys to pic up on top of the toys she already had out from this morning
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
I can't take it anymore! Haley (yes my 1mth old and no I wasn't able to go through this "joy" of nursing my older daughter, Molly) has been screaming non stop for 6hrs! All she wants to do is eat and I can't have her attached to me all day, everyday! She has wanted to eat every hr on the hr for the past 3hrs! I put her in her room so I don't scream at her but I just can't take it!
Hello I am knew here. Im looking to make some new friends on here. My sister told me about her experience and meeting a new friend whom she feels like she has known forever. I am married and I work from home. I am also a college student. I have two boys and they are the best.
FTM problems... So I've made it pretty clear that I want to buy my daughter her fist Halloween costume. Her babysitter/nanny keeps saying she wanted to make her one. I told her yesterday that I wanted to find her something that my SO and I could dress up as a family. So I told her I am going to get it. She just text me and said 'not trying to step on your toes but I bought her two costumes'. She does this all the time. Anytime I want to do the "first" things with her she immediately does it. It's making me sad. Like I wish I could quit my job and be home with her.
Naveya's Mommy 🌹·
Мама дочки (4 года)
When it comes to situations like that, I would rather have a family member your close to. I remember I was gonna have my bff from hs be my daughters godmother. I'm not going to lie, she wpuld buy my daughter things, give me clothes for her, i had dropped out of school on my señior year bc i had moved into my bf house. And she would always go visit me, we would always see eachother almost every day, we lived almost 30mins away. So I was like yeah she's the one, I was all happy ect. Talked to her mom abt it she agreed. But then she went on to college to get her career going ect. I didn't see her much, after that we never spoke again that was around when my daughter was less than 6months being born.
Naveya's Mommy 🌹·
Мама дочки (4 года)
Till this day 4 years exact we haven't spoken. Only once but she never tried or said anything after that. So it was a waterever you know, if she really wanted to be her godmother she could of told me and we could of worked something down the road, I was going to this school to graduate too, and she was going to college so I understood where she was coming from, but i rather just stick to family, that's who you can count on at the end of the day. Just my opinion,🙂
Jasmine·
she has nothing going on but ever since she got with her boyfriend, it's like I don't exist. I think you're right @alma_xoxo we were like that at first now we barely talk or hang out because she never wants to.
Naveya's Mommy 🌹·
Мама дочки (4 года)
Yeah things change, especially when you have friends they don't understand that even though it's just a baby for them, things change. Some get it and others don't, until it's them in that position.
Jasmine·
things have definitely changed and it sucks. Thank you for your input btw! definitely rethinking my options @alma_xoxo
Naveya's Mommy 🌹·
Мама дочки (4 года)
Your very welcome! Hope you find someone that will love your baby no matter what! 💞
Jasmine·
she does the same damn thing. I actually want to hang out and talk more than once every 6 months 😑 I definitely know how you feel. That's kind of sad that you haven't even met her kids @mommierene
Jasmine·
that's a red flag and definitely not fair at all. I wouldn't want her to be around my babies if I couldn't even see hers. That would make me really mad @mommierene
Dez·
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Honestly if she is doing that now it'll just be worse when u have a kid. She may be all into it when ur pregnant but when the baby comes she will go right back to it. Been there done that but been on the other end. I was the God mother and took my job seriously I'd come ovr and spend the night and get up with the twins all night so she could sleep then go to work at 8am the next day but then she started making excuses when I wanted us to get together and go do things with her girls. Those people nvr change and honestly u want someone Ull be able to count on in a pinch.