Honestly if she is doing that now it'll just be worse when u have a kid. She may be all into it when ur pregnant but when the baby comes she will go right back to it. Been there done that but been on the other end. I was the God mother and took my job seriously I'd come ovr and spend the night and get up with the twins all night so she could sleep then go to work at 8am the next day but then she started making excuses when I wanted us to get together and go do things with her girls. Those people nvr change and honestly u want someone Ull be able to count on in a pinch.

that's a red flag and definitely not fair at all. I wouldn't want her to be around my babies if I couldn't even see hers. That would make me really mad @mommierene

she does the same damn thing. I actually want to hang out and talk more than once every 6 months 😑 I definitely know how you feel. That's kind of sad that you haven't even met her kids @mommierene

Your very welcome! Hope you find someone that will love your baby no matter what! 💞

things have definitely changed and it sucks. Thank you for your input btw! definitely rethinking my options @alma_xoxo

Yeah things change, especially when you have friends they don't understand that even though it's just a baby for them, things change. Some get it and others don't, until it's them in that position.

she has nothing going on but ever since she got with her boyfriend, it's like I don't exist. I think you're right @alma_xoxo we were like that at first now we barely talk or hang out because she never wants to.

Till this day 4 years exact we haven't spoken. Only once but she never tried or said anything after that. So it was a waterever you know, if she really wanted to be her godmother she could of told me and we could of worked something down the road, I was going to this school to graduate too, and she was going to college so I understood where she was coming from, but i rather just stick to family, that's who you can count on at the end of the day. Just my opinion,🙂

When it comes to situations like that, I would rather have a family member your close to. I remember I was gonna have my bff from hs be my daughters godmother. I'm not going to lie, she wpuld buy my daughter things, give me clothes for her, i had dropped out of school on my señior year bc i had moved into my bf house. And she would always go visit me, we would always see eachother almost every day, we lived almost 30mins away. So I was like yeah she's the one, I was all happy ect. Talked to her mom abt it she agreed. But then she went on to college to get her career going ect. I didn't see her much, after that we never spoke again that was around when my daughter was less than 6months being born.