I thought I could hold off getting a job til next year when my son is at least 18 mos, but it turns out I have to get one now. He is only 3 Mos and I would have my sisters watch him as one option but I'm worried that he may be grow to be closer to her and start treating her like his parent instead of me since they would be spending most of the time together.I don't know what to do...
thanks for that @momofdeuce and yes I'm grateful that it would be a family member, I know he would be well taken care of..but it would break my heart if he started to get more familiar and prefer her. also I would be most likely missing all of his milestones..
Unless you will be leaving him for months at a time you have nothing to worry about .....also technology is amazing so your just a video call away
He already knows who his mommy is and nothing will change that !
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Short Luteal Phase?
I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.

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Transgender children
So I just learned that in my kids school district (my kids aren't in school yet my oldest will be starting kindergarten next September) there are twin boys who identify as girls. They are 5 years old. What's your opinions on this matter given they are 5!!! I don't believe that at that age they really understand the whole thing. So the entire school had to take a course on how to handle transgender children. For example they can't say girls go this or boys do that. What are...
That's one reason I'm glad I am to stay home with my son . I did not want to miss his milestones and wanted to be apart of him learning new things. I know most mommies don't have this option and it takes a toll on them as they have to hear through someone else what their child has done....Sooo yes I totally empathize with you and your feelings