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I just keep thinking… We have eight months until December. And then we find out where my SO will go (Military Life)… And…

I just keep thinking… We have eight months until December. And then we find out where my SO will go (Military Life)… And then six months later… I might not see him for a year. I'm scared. I've been so busy with baby shower stuff and birthday parties and festivities with friends and work… That I feel like this realization about how my life is really going to change has just hit me. I am two hours away from him for a week… And I feel paralyzed with exhaustion and hopelessness. I think I pushed myself too far. I'm supposed to go in today at 11:30 AM to take a picture of one of my staff members… And then I'm going to get my hair done at 12:30 PM… I am interviewing an intern and a possible employee this evening… And I don't want to do any of it. Nothing sounds good to eat. And I don't want to deal with the hassle of getting dressed and making myself presentable. Got to get myself out of this funk!

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ctrldinsanity

Alicia Gregg-Galida

Мама дочки (8 лет), беременна (23 нед.)

Aw hun of course! 🌸❤️

lonna_dee

Lonna

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@ctrldinsanity, Thank You 😘😘😘😘

ctrldinsanity

Alicia Gregg-Galida

Мама дочки (8 лет), беременна (23 нед.)

Military life here too

First off, stop everything.

Go into a quiet room and breathe. Cry if you have to and gather yourself. It helps. As for the parties etc enlist the help of others and even ask your husband. It'll help him to if he's deploying then it gives him normalcy. When you go get your hair done turn off your phone (or place it away from you) and just relax. Bring a book unrelated to babies etc.

You're never given more than you can handle, you've got this! 🌷 if you need to I'm here to talk / text. ☺️

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