So my husband and I only have until May 1st to find another place or it's back on the street. But now things are different, I have Dean now.
My husband has a possibility to get work out in South Dakota where is parents are. It's 15 and hour construction job (A job he's amazing at). But that means I have to go out of state again now with baby Dean.
That means I have to leave my side of the family again. The last time we left to Minnesota they weren't too thrilled. They are still sore to my husband for "taking me away".
I don't know what to do. All I know deep down I need to because for a two bedroom in South Dakota is in the $650s.
I don't know. I'm torn .
Lol can you do the same for my husband?i want to get the fuck out of california
Do what's best for your family. If that means leaving your family. Them do so. Whatever you have to do to keep a roof over your baby's head.
I'm in same boat >.< all sides of the family are unhappy in some way because of our moving plans but my son is more important.
I move from paramount to apple valley because the rent is cheaper
I didnt really want to move to apple valley because it would be hard to see my family specially cuz my mom dont drive far or in freeway but the good thing its not out if state its only 130 to 2hr at most so i know how you feel try to find something not to far and if you feel that you have to move to south dakota well do it you have to think it it good for my baby were will my baby have a better life
You can plan a trip to see your family or they can make plans to make a trip to see you choose whats best for your little family
I'd hope that they'd rather y'all move out of state, have an income, and a place to live than stay there without a place or income.
im sure you will do whats best for you and your family. but i know for a fact that i will do whatever i have to to keep my children fed and housed. so if that means leaving my family.....ill leave with no problem. my kids come first.