Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
okay I can't be mad at him right now. he moves alot in his sleep and isn't really supportive during my pregnancy but he moved like this while he is asleep and it's just one of those moments that make it all worth it. arian started kicking his hand.
This is my son Walter. Today is his birthday. He would have been five. This picture was taken when he was 16 days old. He was my first child and my only son (I now have 3 girls). He passed away the next day after this picture from congenital heart failure. It was a miracle that he lived passed 12 weeks gestation because of how severe his heart defects were. I miss him so much, I can't believe it's been 5 years. It still hurts so bad. I don't talk about him a lot out loud because I end up bawling, so i thank you for letting me share this with you ladies. You have always been nice and supportive. Happy birthday son, your mom loves you.
Who else has financial issues within their relationship?? Or am I just lucky 🙄🙄 Not sure if I'm being just mean or what. But my SO used $160 from me this morning. I gave him my bank card because he needed $60 to get material for work. His boss was going to give it back to him at the end of the day. So instead of $60 he took out $160. Which I was a little pissed. (One of the reasons I just can't let him use my card. I have to go get the money from the atm myself if I'm giving it to him) then, tonight he asked for $20 incase his boss didn't give it to him. So I gave him my card not even thinking because I had kids running around me. I asked if he could pick up a few things that were out of and told him he could use my card if he has too. And I even told him not to get the expensive brands or anything m generic is fine. So he does. But when he does he decides to go Easter shopping for the kids. (Not sure if he used to my card or not) but if he did, I'd be even more pissed. He knows I have bills to pay on top of giving my son's school money that I owe them. He goes to a private school and I haven't paid in 5 months. It's towards the end of school now so I need to pay it. He knows this month I am extremely tight because of the school, im already in debt and my credit score sucks. I have been trying not to get in more debt and actually fix my credit. I'm so frustrated. It's like we have different priorities and different ideas on this. I feel like I'm completely drowning!!
Kassandra·
Мама двоих (1 год, 1 год), ждёт третьего
I did the same thing with my twins
Honestly once my kids fell asleep I'd put them on the playpen I never used the crib because they would hit their head on it really hard
M. P. ·
Мама сына-младенца
My son is only 3 months old BUT i rock him to sleep, hold him for maybe 30 minutes while he sleeps and then i lay him in his own bed and he stays there until he wakes up, early in the morning to eat and be changed and then we co sleep for 3-5 hours. I NEVER let him start out in my bed, if he starts the night out on my bed i can never move him to his bed and have him stay there. So maybe just try rocking him to sleep and holding him for a bit and then lay him down.
Andrea Cortes·
Мама двоих (1 год, 3 года)
I used to lay with them until they fell asleep and then transfer them to crib and put a blanket that smelled like me in with them. I would always have them nap in crib and if they would cry I would go in and lay them back down and pay them until they closed their eyes and sneak back out. It's a long transition for some kids and their will be tears but just adapt and see what works for you. Good luck mama
Lauren🖤·
Мама дочки-младенца, беременна (2 нед.)
I just transitioned my 8 month old daughter into her play pen in our room at night and it was hard at first. She screamed alot the first night and i gave in a few nights but she then started sleeping all night or would wake up for a bottle and lay in the play pen while eating. she now sleeps in it every night and naps in her crib. I put cartoons on at night before bed and let her play in her play pen for a little while so she can tire herself out.
Deanna·
Мама дочки-младенца
Start with having him take naps in his crib. Have a blanket or something that smells like you so he can snuggle with it. If he cries just go into the room lay him back down and tell him you love him then walk out. It's how I transitioned my daughter. It will be hard hearing him cry but with you going back into the room and laying him back down not picking him up it will work in the long run. Just remind him that you love him every so often and that he's ok. Eventually he will figure out that he's just going to sleep in the crib and then when he wakes up mama will come to play with me.
Jennifer Stone·
Мама дочки-младенца
@desssss, I am in the same boat. I'm interested to see some of these answers too.