I feel like a horrible person right now... Here I am... 30 weeks pregnant with a Child that I've wanted my whole life... And all I can think about is... "How the heck am I going to be able to support him, myself, my SO & his two kids?" And I wonder why my SO getting upset and pushing me away... Refusing to be supportive of the struggles I am having financially, emotionally & career-wise... Has me all twisted?
It is totally normal to feel like this. You will find a way to make it work. Your baby will more motivation than you will ever need. Don't stress about it. Just know it'll be okay. Maybe a little struggle but okay. Try to relax and deal with the stuff as it comes. We are here if you need to talk and vent
He is helping out as much as he can... Half his paycheck goes to the boys Mom... They've been Separated for over a year and a half... And the papers are still being looked at by her... So... I want to bring my kid into a specific atmosphere... So I'm paying OVER half of the bills plus my new medical expenses... Because she's still on his insurance.
You shouldn't be stressing over nothing right now. Your focus should be your little one 💙why isn't your SO HELPING OUT ???
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...

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Oh man hun that's a whole huge plate you got overflowing. That's most definitely things that would make anybody worrisome. He should only give up set amount of money if the court ordered him too. And if the court didn't order her to still be covered by his insurance, take her off. I think with a baby coming you need to focus on just that. He should 100 % support that. Maybe he needs a 2nd job? Finances ruin relationships. I really hope things get better for you hun. The stress of being a step parent is so hard.. I would say your doing a way better job than I could have! Good luck mama!