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Kristina
Kristina
Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (30 нед.)

Alright so this is kind of long, just need to vent a little. My fiancé and I have been together for a little over 3…

Alright so this is kind of long, just need to vent a little. My fiancé and I have been together for a little over 3 years, we have a 1.5 year old daughter and I'm 31 weeks pregnant with our son. In the past I've caught him lying and cheating more than a few times. I put it behind us. I can never tell when he's lying and he gave away no hints when he was cheating. I know he's gotten to the point of deleting evidence of things. I've found porn in his trash bin on his computer a few times but he usually empties his trash bin so I don't know what he could be hiding. I had trust issues before him and they are worse now. I love him so much and don't want to think that he is doing anything but I can't help but wonder because there is no way I could know the truth. He makes me so happy but in the back of my mind I'm always wondering if he is being loyal. I've been more emotional lately because of being pregnant and I break down crying whenever I think of him talking to someone else. I really don't know what to do. Leaving him is not an option, I just couldn't be happy without him. He's my best friend and the love of my life.

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kristinamarie_1996

Kristina

Мама дочки (1 год), беременна (30 нед.)

@ncmomma, I've tried that but he doesn't want to, he says we all deserve privacy and stuff :( I've checked his fb a few times that he has left logged in to our computer but there is nothing there. He deletes anything I would get mad about

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?

@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your…

@itsamemario, you deleted your post before I could hit send but this is my comment: I don’t know if this answers your question but this is my answer. My son is 7 and he knows race and color. Why? Because he himself comes from a family that is multi racial and because he has already experienced racism. I also believe as his mother it’s my job to teach him color and the cold hard truth about society. He knows what’s going on in this world. I’d be hurting him if I allowed him to blindly walk outside without this information. Children of color are being targeted and killed too. It’s not just adults. I let my son know we treat everyone equally and with respect. I let him know that we love everyone for their differences. In every aspect. Color, race, ethnicity, religion, sexual preference we love everyone.

So last night my husband pretty much told me that if I don't have sex with him that he would cheat on me....I was like…

So last night my husband pretty much told me that if I don't have sex with him that he would cheat on me....I was like wtf. I was like you would seriously cheat on your pregnant wife?! I also told him that if he cheats on me I will NOT hesitate to file for divorce. I don't need my girls growing up thinking that cheating is ok. This was after we tried to have sex but it hurt too much so I told him to stop. When it comes to sex my husband only thinks about himself lately!!!! 😒😒😒😒