My husband ALWAYS seems mad about something. He's mad because he has to go to work. He's mad because he asked me if he could go tinker on his bike minutes before I have to leave somewhere. It just seems like he's mad at the world. And I bring this to his attention. He knows he has underlying anger issues and no patience. I've tried everything. It gives me anxiety that he becomes irate at the smallest things; he cant find his phone, he cant find a pacifier, the baby's diaper wont go on right. I keep telling him that maybe he needs to just find himself, find so happiness. About 10 minutes ago, he attempts to talk with me about his irritation and results in getting mad about us talking about it?!?! I dont know what to do anymore. I'm a very happy person. I find euphoria in the smallest of things and he is the opposite, very closed minded at times. I grew up with an angry father, which led to my out of control behavior as a child and I refuse to let my daughter be subjected to that. I love my husband very much, but I'd rather us be seperate and Eleanor see us both happy than for her to see us bickering over matterless things. I suggested that maybe we should take a vacation together somewhere and get our minds off of regular life for a bit, but thats all I can think of. I've run out of options.
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My husband was being the same way, I asked him to go to therapy with me because our marriage was suffering and he of course refused. I opted to self help books and came across one that actually made a difference. I read it by myself and applied it to our daily life and I was so ecstatic to see it actually making a change in him. It's worth a try.... the book is called Love and Respect and it's by Dr. Emerson. I also really enjoyed reading leadership and self deception (getting out of the box) it applied to every aspect of my life, especially my marriage and how I could help influence the people around me... I really hope this helps and don't give up hope!
Thank you @theprutsman4 i think ill try that!