My husband ALWAYS seems mad about something. He's mad because he has to go to work. He's mad because he asked me if he could go tinker on his bike minutes before I have to leave somewhere. It just seems like he's mad at the world. And I bring this to his attention. He knows he has underlying anger issues and no patience. I've tried everything. It gives me anxiety that he becomes irate at the smallest things; he cant find his phone, he cant find a pacifier, the baby's diaper wont go on right. I keep telling him that maybe he needs to just find himself, find so happiness. About 10 minutes ago, he attempts to talk with me about his irritation and results in getting mad about us talking about it?!?! I dont know what to do anymore. I'm a very happy person. I find euphoria in the smallest of things and he is the opposite, very closed minded at times. I grew up with an angry father, which led to my out of control behavior as a child and I refuse to let my daughter be subjected to that. I love my husband very much, but I'd rather us be seperate and Eleanor see us both happy than for her to see us bickering over matterless things. I suggested that maybe we should take a vacation together somewhere and get our minds off of regular life for a bit, but thats all I can think of. I've run out of options.
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My husband was being the same way, I asked him to go to therapy with me because our marriage was suffering and he of course refused. I opted to self help books and came across one that actually made a difference. I read it by myself and applied it to our daily life and I was so ecstatic to see it actually making a change in him. It's worth a try.... the book is called Love and Respect and it's by Dr. Emerson. I also really enjoyed reading leadership and self deception (getting out of the box) it applied to every aspect of my life, especially my marriage and how I could help influence the people around me... I really hope this helps and don't give up hope!
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Am I wrong for telling my Bd that because we not Married my baby don't have to have his last name? He really got mad and told me I was project n ignorant. Crazy part is I was thinking about giving my baby his middle and last name
Lefty or Righty
I think my son is a lefty. He's a month and a week and grabs with his left hand. He rarely uses his right.
Okay so someone on my Instagram wants to talk to me and finds me more attractive and wants me more because I'm pregnant... And he's not my baby's father... Is that weird like I find it very very strange he would wanna do things with me while I'm pregnant 😟🤔🤔
Nothing like finding out your husband lied about where he was last night. I guess that will be a fun conversation when he gets up today. But idk when that will be since he went to bed at 6 something this morning. Also found out he added a girl on his snapchat that I don't know. Just really need to find something that will keep my mind off of all of this until I can talk to him about it. 😞
Thank you @theprutsman4 i think ill try that!