The father of my eldest son randomly messaged me thanking me for allowing him to spend time with his son and congratulating me and my husband on our 2nd baby on the way. I just hope he remains cordial because he had thanked me for being a great mother before and then turned around and talked crap about me to his family and had them all in my inbox saying I live off of child support and how they want to fight me... like really? my car payment cost more than what my son gets a month and I have a whole mortgage and other bills and my son still has the world thanks to me and my husband smh. Hopefully the kind words were real this time.