So my son has only taken a pacifier once and that was while he was in the hospital when he was 6weeks old. I am running out of options and would like him to take one now so he will maybe stay asleep when I lay him down or am not holding him.. is there anything I can do to now get him to take one and use it to soothe himself?
HannahМама сына-младенца, беременна (14 нед.)
@babynessa, how do you start the cry it out? I'm afraid it would just be traumatizing for him since he's already 8 months and used to me going to him with even the start of a cry. If I don't come he starts crying hysterically
DeannaМама дочки-младенца
I never used a paci. My daughter has this silk rag doll. She likes silky things and soft things so thats what I used when she was younger. But now she just sleeps on her own because I did the cry it out method which is what her pediatrician told me to do and it works. Hard at first but so rewarding once she figured out she's ok and I'm not picking her up. She crys maybe once a week for about 5 minutes and thats about it.
AuroraМама дочки-младенца
I'm wondering the same thing my daughter doesn't take one also !@hkatedavis
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
I am so stressed right now!!! My OB doesn’t want to take me anymore because I am too “high risk” so I got a new one they don’t want to see me either. They referred me to a group one hour way from my house. But there is only one high risk dr and he doesn’t know if he could see me. I feel like I should not see any at this point.
so i txted my bd an told him i might wanna move the shower to the park instead of his sisters house because of our arguement an he ignored me so now i will ignore him an not tell him when the baby actually comes. am i wrong??
Who else has financial issues within their relationship?? Or am I just lucky 🙄🙄 Not sure if I'm being just mean or what. But my SO used $160 from me this morning. I gave him my bank card because he needed $60 to get material for work. His boss was going to give it back to him at the end of the day. So instead of $60 he took out $160. Which I was a little pissed. (One of the reasons I just can't let him use my card. I have to go get the money from the atm myself if I'm giving it to him) then, tonight he asked for $20 incase his boss didn't give it to him. So I gave him my card not even thinking because I had kids running around me. I asked if he could pick up a few things that were out of and told him he could use my card if he has too. And I even told him not to get the expensive brands or anything m generic is fine. So he does. But when he does he decides to go Easter shopping for the kids. (Not sure if he used to my card or not) but if he did, I'd be even more pissed. He knows I have bills to pay on top of giving my son's school money that I owe them. He goes to a private school and I haven't paid in 5 months. It's towards the end of school now so I need to pay it. He knows this month I am extremely tight because of the school, im already in debt and my credit score sucks. I have been trying not to get in more debt and actually fix my credit. I'm so frustrated. It's like we have different priorities and different ideas on this. I feel like I'm completely drowning!!
Deanna·Мама дочки-младенца
He'll most likely cry hysterically my daughter did. But I just kiss my daughter, turn her night light on and tell her good night when I lay her down. I crack her door and let her cry until she goes to sleep. Occasionally I go in there lay her back down kiss her tell her she's ok and that I love her and leave the room. Or I'll go to the door and say "Vanessa your ok mommy is right here go night night. I love you pumpkin" and leave. If I can't deal with the crying and feel like I'm going to cave I put ear plugs in and turn on music or the TV or I sit in my car while her dad deals with her because he is stronger than me. It's hard but my daughter's doctor did it with all her kids and he cry because he is dependent on you. I don't want my daughter to be dependent on me for every little thing. Because in my opinion it won't help her when she's older. If she doesn't figure it out now when she's young it will only be harder to have her become independent when she's older. I don't want a 2 or 3 year old sleeping in bed with me or rocking her to sleep at that age or always having her attached to my hip. I want her to explore and know I will be there when she falls to encourage her to get up and try again but I won't have her dependent on me for every little thing. I'm not going to lie he will cry as if he's dying but it won't hurt him. He'll figure it out, you just have to stand your ground and be strong and sooner or later he'll figure out that he is ok and you won't let anything hurt him but it's time to go to sleep and he doesn't need you to go to sleep. A lot of moms don't like the cry it out and are against it but you can try it and see if its for you if not try something else. @hkatedavis
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