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Korahleah Sanchez
Korahleah Sanchez
Мама двоих (2 года, 6 лет), ждёт третьего

My hormones are on a full go right now and I seriously wanna divorce my husband right now. We're having a convo about…

My hormones are on a full go right now and I seriously wanna divorce my husband right now. We're having a convo about FB. We use to have ours together but it was a pain in the ass so we just got our own. Which was fine, but he said he wanted to get rid of it because we spend to much time on it. (In reality it was him) but whatever so I said okay. We haven't had it for a while and now that baby is coming I told him I'm getting mine back because I want to know who's gunna be trying to post pictures of my son. & I don't want anyone posting pictures before me. Like not that I'm gunna be on there all the time or whatever. I don't have time for that & I told him just to get his back if he wants it. & he goes no I don't wanna see dudes posting pictures of naked girls cause it makes me wanna watch porn. Like seriously.. you can't control your emotions or what! He knows I hate porn with a passion and if I ever found out he was watching I probably would leave. And I know he's just being honest but you don't tell your 35 weeks pregnant wife that! Like I'm so insecure at this point and he says that. Ugh I know I know. My hormones are every where and y'all probably think I'm crazy but I don't have anyone else to talk to you. I just wanna cry. And I told him wow ok. And he's well I'm just being honest. I'm like you don't have be honest all you could have said was yes or no. Lol

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morganmommy79

MariluМама двоих (12 лет, 15 лет), ждёт третьего

My past marriage was destroyed over porn. My ex was into it for years and I kept it to myself (hurting over it) for 7 long years. I tried denying it. But it was real. He destroyed my trust for him and any relationship we had together. Porn lead to lust and we couldn't go anywhere without him lusting over women. I eventually came to hate Walmart (his fave place to scope women) and anything on television and online. We are divorced, we're both married to someone else and I still have issues with television and Internet and it creates problems in my new marriage. So yeah, I HATE PORN and everything to do with it. And if your husband is struggling with images on Facebook it's actually great that he's avoiding it. Wait until he's strong enough to deal. No different than me desiring a candy bar when I'm overweight. Best to avoid the problem altogether. You are beautiful and a lot of men struggle with porn. I learned that my ex said it meant nothing to him, he loved me but it was a addiction he lost control over. Like any addiction. And that those women meant nothing to him, just a quick fix. It's sickening and hurtful but help your husband avoid anything related to porn so you don't end up where I am. Divorced, sharing children, and dealing with baggage from it all in a new relationship. 😔

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brandie69.br.br

Brandie RobertsМама троих детей

but I feel ya tat part of the reason I left my ex husband BC he was always watching porn n he was cheating with my sister

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brandie69.br.br

Brandie RobertsМама троих детей

wow im so sorry tat bs he can't control his self wen he has a very beautiful woman next to him

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korahleah_11

Korahleah SanchezМама двоих (2 года, 6 лет), ждёт третьего

Thank you! @heatherlg88,

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heatherlou88

HeatherМама дочки-младенца

I understand completely. some people don't think porn is a big deal on here but it is awful. it kills you spiritually. I hate it too.hang in there & pray for him.

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korahleah_11

Korahleah SanchezМама двоих (2 года, 6 лет), ждёт третьего

I agree. We just got into and he's all I haven't even watched born since we got married and I'm like okay but apparently it's crossing your mind and thinking about it! Idk it makes me wanna leave. That's how bad I hate it. @heatherlg88,

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heatherlou88

HeatherМама дочки-младенца

I'm not down for porn either girl. if my hubby watched it I'd leave. it would be like I wasn't enough for him plus watching porn opens doors for demonic spirits to enter. 🙅👹👿😈 not in my house.

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korahleah_11

Korahleah SanchezМама двоих (2 года, 6 лет), ждёт третьего

I completely agree @ilovemykids24,

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ilovemykids24

KeneeshaМама двоих (младенец)

That's absolutely crazy and stupid.

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korahleah_11

Korahleah SanchezМама двоих (2 года, 6 лет), ждёт третьего

It's extremely hard! And it's worse because like if I post something about our son, or family. I get one like maybe from his mom. And then if she post something about her family or kids then his whole family is liking it and commenting on it. And they haven't been together in 6 years! I just don't understand it. @ilovemykids24,

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ilovemykids24

KeneeshaМама двоих (младенец)

Gosh. Them having his ex on there would just set my B**** side off.

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korahleah_11

Korahleah SanchezМама двоих (2 года, 6 лет), ждёт третьего

Awe, thank you! :) @ilovemykids24,

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korahleah_11

Korahleah SanchezМама двоих (2 года, 6 лет), ждёт третьего

I probably will again once he's born because I don't want them posting pictures of him first. & FB is a lot of drama when it comes to his family cause they have he's ex on there and they like and comment on everything she does and it shows on mine and I just rather not see that. @ilovemykids24,

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jacobismommy

Dalehe86В ожидании первенца

@korahleah_11, I completely agree

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ilovemykids24

KeneeshaМама двоих (младенец)

And you're so pretty I don't know why he'd turn to that.

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ilovemykids24

KeneeshaМама двоих (младенец)

I got rid of Facebook then got it back when my daughter was born. Less then a week later. I got rid of it again.

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korahleah_11

Korahleah SanchezМама двоих (2 года, 6 лет), ждёт третьего

I agree. And like I mentioned earlier if I wasn't having sex with him or doing whatever he wanted. Yeah okay I could maybe understand. But I'm 9 months pregnant and STILL doing him almost everyday when he wants it. So I'm like why do you need it, are you really that bored! @dalehe86,

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korahleah_11

Korahleah SanchezМама двоих (2 года, 6 лет), ждёт третьего

That's what I'm saying. And I mean it's just FB like I know it's not that important but I mean you don't wanna share pictures of your son!? Idk maybe I'm thinking to much on it but I'm gunna monitor mine regardless because I know how he's family is. But it just struck me hard when we said that. And he's all well I'm just being honest and I just said cool. Like what the hell do you want me to say now! @ilovemykids24,

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jacobismommy

Dalehe86В ожидании первенца

I used to hate it too. I do feel like it's whatever.. but if he's in a relationship then what need is there really to watch it? Might as well be single if that's why he'd rather do.

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ilovemykids24

KeneeshaМама двоих (младенец)

Yeah. Completely. I wish it wasn't invented to. Maybe he should delete the ppl that share that stupid stuff.

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korahleah_11

Korahleah SanchezМама двоих (2 года, 6 лет), ждёт третьего

Thank you @dalehe86 everyone I've talked to thinks I'm crazy they say "it's just porn" and I'm like well I think "it's just cheating" and I mean I know men are men but cmon now!

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korahleah_11

Korahleah SanchezМама двоих (2 года, 6 лет), ждёт третьего

Ugh. I hate it with a passion. I wish it was never freaking invented! Like and what sucks is that I think it makes me feel worse is because I'm huge dude. Like I've gained a lot of weight but I still have sex with him and do things for him at 9 months pregnant! I can hardly walk but I'm making sure he's satisfied but yet him seeing a picture of a naked girl or whatever makes me think of porn. Like I know dudes are gunna share stuff on FB he has no control over that but he could control his emotions! @ilovemykids24,

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jacobismommy

Dalehe86В ожидании первенца

That's ridiculous that he has no self control. I would feel the same if I were you. It's not just the hormones.

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ilovemykids24

KeneeshaМама двоих (младенец)

Nope. I don't think that's your hormones. I'm not pregnant and my bf and I just got in a fight about porn. I hate it as well.

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