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Am I wrong to call myself a mother? I kinda feel like I should leave that title to those who carry full term and raise their child/children 😔
I will be 41 :/
Short Luteal Phase? I've just started temping because I believe that the reason I haven't had a BFP yet, after 20 months, is because I believe I may have a Luteal Phase Defect.
Things I never thought I'd say... Until I became a mom:
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
Hannah·
@xmellybeanx, I cry lots. Just a little bit of a certain song gets to me
Mel·
Мама дочки-младенца
@grayce1219 Thank you. It definitely sucks. But now I have someone watching over me and that's what I will tell myself everyday! Don't ever be afraid to cry over your loss. Also, don't be afraid to ask "why me?" Because that really is an answer I'll forever ask but can yet half answer/understand.
Hannah·
@xmellybeanx, I'm so sorry for your loss 😔 I couldn't imagine that.
Mel·
Мама дочки-младенца
You can definitely call yourself a mother! I had my baby girl last week at 41 weeks and she passed away. Angel babies are still babies❤
Hannah·
@jc2015, thank you 😌
jazzmaree·
В ожидании первенца
you ARE a mother. your baby is simply watching over you from above. there is absolutely nothing wrong with calling yourself a mother, before this pregnancy I miscarried 5 times and still said I was a mother,
and one day, you will carry to full term and have your rainbow baby, and when your time comes, you'll get to see your angel baby and hold your angel as well.
Bonnie·
Мама сына (1 год)
Yes you will! Perhaps a child picked out for you by the one you loss. I always felt my son was picked for me by my family who passed away, that my family held him before he came to me. Maybe it's crazy but it's how I feel.
Hannah·
@bonniesue, thank you 😔 I just have to keep reminding myself that I'll have a child to hold someday. But I'll get to hold the one I lost someday as well.
Bonnie·
Мама сына (1 год)
I think you can call yourself whatever you're comfortable with. I know women who miscarry that call themselves mothers and go out educating people about loss. And there are others who do not because it was too hard to explain no child being around. There's really no right or wrong answer. Just what feels right in your heart.