when i tell him something bugs me about what he did he gets into this defensive mode. and i keep tellin him hey u need to help me cuz i hate always having to ask he cant just do things out of love. like for example. i saved $ so we can get a place together and he was supposed to save up too but he never did. its been a whole yr i been waiting for him to make a move but nothin n i get mad cuz it like u tell me u want certai. things but u show no action at all

@perzianprincess, does he start the fights with you.

We didn't balance out until the end of my second trimester😰 it's was nuts!

Thank u for tryna be positive tho! lol

The issue is I try but he ignores me. And he is so emotionally abusive. I told him I dont want to be in this with anymore. of course I still want us to be civil for the sake of this baby but I dont want my daughter to grow up to think its ok for a boy to call her names. yes we are hormonal and stuff but there is NO excuse for him to call me names. and my son is 10 yrs old and he doesn't need to hear a man yellin at his mom.

Don't think negative. Every relationship has its ups and downs. And us pregnant woman have a lot of hormones right now and are very emotional. Me and husband bicker literally every single day. They don't understand how we feel right and thats okay. Sit down and have a deep conversation with your spouse and really express how you feel, I have to do that with my husband. @perzianprincess