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so what i feared would happen has now happened... my son who is 4 has got jealous now ive had another baby... he came in…

so what i feared would happen has now happened... my son who is 4 has got jealous now ive had another baby... he came in to me tonight to tell me he hasnt got a mummy... aftwr speaking with him its come to light he thinks i cant be both their mummys and he cant always cuddle and kiss me all day cuz i have to feed the baby etc... absolute broke my heart to hear this... any tips on how to stop hik feeling this way...?? has it happened to any of u ladies?? it dont help were its just been me and him 24/7 his whole life...

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babyno2-suzie

suzieМама двоих (младенец)

@winterbaby95, @sara-lou i have been including him but ill make more of a fuss and extra effort with him... he will get used to it soon i hope... ive herd of this happeneing to alot of kids that are used to being only children but were he was so excited just never thought he would be like this so its a sad shock... xxx

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winterbaby95

BethanyМама дочки-младенца

Try to get him involved hun :) changing...bathing...feeding etc :) And make some time to do things with just you two :) like painting.....drawing...art and crafts (while little bubba is asleep) xxx

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sara-lou86

Sara-LouiseМама двоих (младенец)

It is harder when their a bit older as like you say they've been used to it being just them. All you can do is continue to show him he's very much loved & that even though your feeding baby, in between your interacting & playing with him. Or even when you feeding baby talk to him so he knows your still available to talk. There are children's books which cover the topic as well which we've used at nursery to help. It will come with time, he'll adjust & realise Mummy has plenty of love to share for everyone.

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Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday…

Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?