My husband had a vasectomy today. I am having a very hard time not being upset by it.
We have 4 children together. And he has 2 older kids from a previous relationship. He is 43 and I am 28. I understand his want to be done and not have to do the newborn stage anymore. But I don't feel "done" (if that makes any sense). I always saw myself with a huge family.
After we had our third, he went behind my back and made an appointment and then scheduled his procedure. He had to cancel because of work and then I actually found out I was pregnant with our fourth. So he just recently called and made the appointment. And it was today.
I'm having a tough time with this. Is it normal for me to feel this animosity towards him?! I feel bad. But I'm very hurt by this....
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I personally think it's wrong that he went behind your back to do it. I get it's his body but you guys are married and that's something you discuss with each other bc that's a huge decision. in a marriage standpoint I find it selfish if you didn't talk about it first
ultimately it's his body his choice and if it's something you cannot accept then you have to make the right choice for you
Did you talk to him before it was done
Hi
I am into my 15 week now
But since last two days am not having good feeling....I just feel something is wrong inside wid d kid...all my symptoms r too less
Morning sickness is gone....Metallic taste of my tounge is also less....and I feel pain in my abdoman twice or thrice which is very minor though
What should i do i am very confused
Already have gone through 5 scans because of changing gynec
Just feel that untill i hear the heartbeat or see my kid i wont b ok....got sleepless nights
Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no,
his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me...
Strippers.
How do you all feel about your SO/hubby going to the strip club? I honestly have jealousy issues and I dont approve of it for my SO, as he already doesn't like too go. But i feel like if he wants to see women stripping on poles, I can be his own personal stripper. Lol ? I am just curious to see what others feel and think!
Need ideas!
We had our baby on Tuesday, unfortunately he was born sleeping. I really really cannot express in words how amazing my nurses were. They were so very kind, understanding, gentle with their words, and forthcoming about what to expect. I couldn't have done it without them.
Hi i am New to this and im just trying the app out. i am 11 weeks and i made a doctors appointment to find out what im having. what do you think?
We talked about it after he told me he had the procedure scheduled. I think I would be able to deal with it better if he had talked to me about it first....