My husband had a vasectomy today. I am having a very hard time not being upset by it.
We have 4 children together. And he has 2 older kids from a previous relationship. He is 43 and I am 28. I understand his want to be done and not have to do the newborn stage anymore. But I don't feel "done" (if that makes any sense). I always saw myself with a huge family.
After we had our third, he went behind my back and made an appointment and then scheduled his procedure. He had to cancel because of work and then I actually found out I was pregnant with our fourth. So he just recently called and made the appointment. And it was today.
I'm having a tough time with this. Is it normal for me to feel this animosity towards him?! I feel bad. But I'm very hurt by this....
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I personally think it's wrong that he went behind your back to do it. I get it's his body but you guys are married and that's something you discuss with each other bc that's a huge decision. in a marriage standpoint I find it selfish if you didn't talk about it first
ultimately it's his body his choice and if it's something you cannot accept then you have to make the right choice for you
Did you talk to him before it was done
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We talked about it after he told me he had the procedure scheduled. I think I would be able to deal with it better if he had talked to me about it first....