scarlett had her 4 month jabs today and she's been grumpy all day and really teary. I asked my MIL to change her butt while I made myself a bit of food. while she was putting a clean baby grow on her she started screaming and crying. I go in and pick her off the changing mat and hug her better. now my MIL is annoyed with me because I got my own daughter when she was crying. if I was doing her butt and she cried like that my MIL would have done the same thing! at the end of the day she's me daughter not hers. am I being to harsh and was I in the wrong?