Yesterday I went out with my boyfriend went to watch a movie, me and him don't live together yet. but point is yesterday when he was dropping me off his like sleep over at my house witch the mom and dad lives. I said no, his response was why is everyone deciding or making choices for you and their going to do the same with the baby, when I know that's not true. what he thinks is that my mom tells me not to sleep over. So he left all mad. and I felt in my heart that he went on and cheated on me and did something else with an other girl.... and it's 10:51 am now and he hasn't texted me at all. and after he dropped me off I texted him saying what I felt and nothing. I don't know if I'm over reacting or what or what should i do. do i wait until he text me?
I don't care what ppl think of me, but I'm seriously considering putting my baby up for adoption. I love her with all of heart, but doing this alone is hard. Every single night she just screams to the top of her lungs and I do everything to soothe her. I don't know what to do at all. I wish I had some kind of help. I don't have a single ounce of help. I don't know a single soul in Minnesota either.
I am stuck, my daughter is seriously my whole world I would do anything for her. And she tells me how her real dad doesn't play with her when she's there, and her dads girlfriend makes her upset. 😔 she's only there for 2 days a week. But I'm seriously torn. I don't even know what to do to approach this.
Do you guys think spanking a 2 year old is okay? Because I use to spank my 2 year old, but I started to notice that she started to be scared of me and that just hurt my heart, so I no longer do that and she loves me so much more, but her dad scares her because with him she gets spankings for every little thing she does and she cries like crazy when she goes with him, so what should I do if her dad doesn’t want to stop spanking her?
I am sick to death of my in laws telling me how fat Scarlett is, and asking me what I feed her! Does she look fat to you? No!
Deanna·
Мама дочки-младенца
I never grew up with a mother or father. Every mother's day and father's day went to my grandparents or an aunt and uncle. Your doing the right thing. Protect your child and one day your baby will thank you for it.
Bree·
Мама сына-младенца
@roche.mommy6435, of course!
Bree·
Мама сына-младенца
@jsco, awe that's sweet yeah my dad lovers her so much
Jorja Green·
В ожидании первенца
I grew up without a dad and it took a while for teachers and stuff to catch on, however all of my father's day, Christmas, any kind of cards we did at school went to my grandpa and he was so happy and appreciative that it didn't matter that I had a dad. there is so much more for your child to look forward to, especially if their father is the way you say. protect your baby!
Baylee·
Мама двоих (младенец)
@lesleyraesmommy, can i message you?
Michelle·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (13 нед.)
@lesleyraesmommy, worst case- she will be upset for a few years then she will realize once she gets old enough to understand that you did what was best for her
Bree·
Мама сына-младенца
@b3autifulm3ss, @roche.mommy6435 thanks ladies I just didn't know how I should feel for her and my mom says it's possible she may grow up resenting me cuz I kept him away
Baylee·
Мама двоих (младенец)
love!! having no dad is better than her getting hurt by him mentally or physically. i grew up without a dad because he left us. she may not understand when shes little but when she gets older she will. i also grew up with my brother who is a child molester. im one of his victims so yes love. you are doing the right thing. never doubt yourself.
Michelle·
Мама сына (1 год), беременна (13 нед.)
@lesleyraesmommy, you are absolutely doing the right thing for your child!!! You are not going to deprive her of ever having a relationship with her father- her father has every right to go back to court later if he cleans up his act... worst case you are lighting a fire under his POS ass to shape up or lose the rights to his child forever... hang in there you got this momma