my daughter is only 3 months old and I'm currently fighting for sole custody cuz of her dad's sexual and physical abuse drug and alcohol use..and it seriously depresses the he'll outta me thinking about if I do win it she will never get to do fathers day gifts in church, or do donuts with dad ect...and it trips me up. like I seriously fear for her going over to his house unsupervised but am I doing the right thing for her? or am I depriving her from ever having a dad in her life.