I'm loosing hope for this to be my rainbow baby 😞 yet another doctor that refuses to take my pregnancy seriously! I've lost five already! Two miscarriages then had a son then two more miscarriages then an ectopic! Last time I had this same "high risk doctor" and he refused to get my hcg until I begged him! But he wouldn't take it every two days to see if it was rising! 😣 i knew something was wrong and he but he still said no! Scheduled me for the normal 4week wait for another checkup! So I ended up in and out of the Ear with bleeding and pain testing my hcg! By the time my appointment came around I had already lost the baby and could have died because my tube was bursting! I had surgery and hey removed my tube..he swore I wasn't going to be able to get pregnant naturally but here I am! 7w and he still won't fucking take it seriously! Said my history is fine! Said we saw a hb so my baby isn't going to die! Umm I've seen a heartbeat before everything looked fine and my baby still died! I asked him to run tests he said no! He wouldn't do another scan! And didn't want to check my progesterone! Until I begged him! He said I need to woman up when I told him how sick I was and how i fell from being so dizzy twice I went to the ER after work because I was cramping and spotting! And he still said I should keep working and suck it up! 😡 I have zero hope now! I need good medical care strait away with my pregnancies! I don't want to loose a 6th baby! Ugh! I'm so mad!!!
@emileemoreland, ugh wish my doctor did! :( makes me so mad!
Change your doctors and speak to someone in the hospital to see if you can report him. He could stop being a doctor real quick if you do this.. That's not ok
@mommy4916, I've had four miscarriages and an ectopic I can't be seen every four weeks I'm very high risk. They can do something for me they can run tests Check my betas and my progesterone. And check for chromosome abnormalities.
I had 2 miscarriages back to back and went in to find out I was pregnant again with Emma (now 6 months old) and they told me they will see me in 4 weeks and she said there is nothing they can do to stop my body from having a miscarriage except for me getting on birth control, I was so scared those first 12 weeks I literally didn't tell anyone I was pregnant till almost 20 weeks I checked every time I went to the bathroom just to make sure there wasn't blood, try and stay calm and find a new doctor and relax so u don't stress the baby
@allyk.xmommy, hope so I don't have time
@macdeddy05, same I lost a baby and my right tube because this doctor didn't take me seriously 😞
@corinasolorio, you will hunny. it just takes some time
Get another I doctor I lost a baby and my left tube because a doctor didn't take me serious your life is worth more
@allyk.xmommy, ugh lucky you hopefully I find one like that before it's too late
yea, that's absolutely crazy hun. I wish I could help. my ob is so amazing and her favorite things to say is better safe than sorry.
@allyk.xmommy, ugh I think I am! And I drove two hours since I found out just to see him because he had known my history
I would seriously report him. he is lazy and cruel.
@ajourneywithtwo, I'm switching as soon as I find one
@housfullofgrls, I def am but I'm loosing hope because I don't have time to deal with this! My babies don't live long enough to be messing around with bull shit! I'm begging him to try and find the problem before its to late! I begged him to check my progesterone! To see if I need that! But he wouldn't check anything else! 😡
I'd call your insurance and see if they can switch doctors.
You need to find a different doctor
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That's awful! Hope you can switch doctors fast. Stressing does us no good either when we're preggo so he shouldn't be making it harder for you. He should be as reassuring as possible 😑