It just amazes me how women ask for "big" baby showers and tell the fathers family its their job to do so for them. This lady has the nerve to say that to my SO's family...and they are not even the biological family. That sh** just screams "greedy" to me. When I had my son I didn't have a baby shower till he was almost 2 1/2 months..and I didn't ask for nothing. My SO's family planned it for my son and it was a huge success to my surprise..I was very thankful and I told each and everyone of them. Don't mind me but some ladies are too materialistic in my opinion.