Been thinking a lot how do I tell my family I dont want them at the birth of my daughter they all assume they will be there and havent had the energy to argue with them about it but I really just want me and my babys father. wish my family would understand that.
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and I cant wait to have my own family then I can fistance myself from my current one. lol
@ava111, lol I think im gonna call one person at a time not one for big groups being around me. lol.
@mariahs_mama, fuck her then !! call her later, or even once you get home lol. im not calling anyone until i feel totally up to it. you cant choose your family, but once you have your own , its a whole nother ball game lol.
@ava111, im gonna have to hide it until mariah is here. I went in a couple weeks ago cause I was getting bad cramps and just gave my mom a courtesy call and my mom showed up at the hospital soooo drunk and called my dad and told him I was having a miscarriage. lmao so I am positive I dont want her there. lol I love her but she is wayyyy to much for me.
@mariahs_mama, believe me , my mom is triple shot of cray lol but if you say something so crazy she just might think the apple doesnt fall far. i just hope your certain about her not being there , id hate for you to regret it later. personally , im positive i only want it to be us so i will say and do anything to prevent anyone from ruining it. if its possible just dont contact anyone until your baby has actually been delivered , not a second sooner. then the cats out the bag lol ... good luck
@kaylaromero, yeah I would feel akward knowing everyone is all up in my business. lol. and thats funny my mom would freak if I let her in just to kik her out lmao.
@california12632, most def the nurse will do it. im pretty positive they wouldnt tell yu no.
after the baby is born you can tell the family to come in, I just want it to be us because that's a special moment you know? my family wasn't watching while me and my husband had sex to get pregnant, why watch while I'm giving birth? I may let my mom in just to kick her ass out if the room for pay back of how she's been but that's about it. lol
The only issue I have is I want some pictures after the baby is born of us you think the nurse would do it?
@kaylaromero, yeah no need to have someone around that is gonna stress yu out even more than the pain lol
@california12632, for me its the other way my family is all gonna show up if I let them his family will ask me if I want them around.
I've already told my husband that nobody but him is gonna be in the room. he's mad that his mom can't be in there cause it's her first grandchild but she hasn't done anything but nag and complain about everything . like why let that be around on my day.
Yeah knowing my baby daddy's family they would come even if I told them not to because they are super excited so I'm just not telling them and non of my family lives around us
@kaylaromero, I totally agree noone needs to see that but him. lol. @ava111 I dont think that would work on my mom lol she is cray cray.
@california12632, that is an awesome idea lmao. I think I might do that and well the father of my daughter doesnt get along with any of my family so I want him to be comfortable this is his day as much as it is mine just with my family would get that.
i told my mom that if she thinks shes gonna be in the delivery room during my labor that ill tell all the nurses and doctors shes trying to steal my baby lol. she laughed and definately got the point lol. it should only be us in the room, too bad , so sad lol
your day, your choice. the few people I have told already assume they're gonna be present but I too only want my husband present. nobody got my pregnant but him so he's the only one who needs to see me giving birth.
You don't want them at a the hospital at all? Then I just wouldn't tell them when you go lol I might do the same too
@california12632, @babyn2015 my family is used to me just going with the flow but this is something im gonna put my foot down on and I think a lot of people are gonna be angry with me lol
I just posted the same situation😊. It's your day! Do what makes you happy!
Is it rude to not want anyone at the hospital?
I was just informed that my MIL wants to be waiting at the hospital so as soon as I pop out the baby she can rush in to be with the baby. I am really a private person and dont really want anyone at the hospital when I give birth (except my husband). I was planning on calling all the family to come to the hospital once I was all cleaned up and ready for visitors. Am I being rude? How do I tell them I dont want visitors a minute after pushing out...
Am I wrong for not wanting anybody to hold the baby if it's not me or my husband? If they touch them I have them to sanitize their hands I do it to my kids also??
IF WHEN I HAVE MY BABY I DONT WANT MY BD OR HIS FAMILY TO EVER C HER WHAT DO I HAVE TO DO???
This is gonna be my first, but I want 2. :)
did any other ladies ask for family & friends not to post on social media that they were in labor? it's not that I don't want it on there it's just that I don't want my mom's side of the family to show up at the hospital. I know they will be upset about it because my stepdad, his gf, & both of my step siblings will be involved at the hospital. my mom's family has too many kids under the age of 10 & they are rambunctious & unruly so I don't want them there.
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