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Kayla Khadu
Kayla Khadu
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In need of advice.. Soooo my husband and I are going through it and I'm leaning towards going back to work ☹ I don't…

In need of advice.. Soooo my husband and I are going through it and I'm leaning towards going back to work ☹️ I don't want to because I prefer to stay home with my baby but I need to do what's best for me and her. Soo what's a good age to put your baby in daycare? And what are things to look for ?

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jeanetta25

JeanettaМама сына (7 лет), беременна (22 нед.)

No problem . At the end of the day your mommy and you have the last say in what you do and how and why . I had my son young when I was 18 and people always had a lot to say about what me and his dad should have done and etc and sometimes I listened and it didn't work out lol . So it's a learning experience . Hell im 25 and about to have my daughter and people still tell me what I should and not and she's not even here yet lol . But now I know follow my own instinct cause at the end it's on me . You'll figure it out when it's time !! @youluvkay

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youluvkay

Kayla KhaduМама дочки-младенца

@jeanetta25, thank you so much ! Yea you have people saying oh don't do homes or don't do this and it's like man lol Im new at this but thanks !

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jeanetta25

JeanettaМама сына (7 лет), беременна (22 нед.)

@youluvkay,

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jeanetta25

JeanettaМама сына (7 лет), беременна (22 нед.)

I say you have to do what's best for you and baby to make sure y'all are okay just incase things turn out not as you planned . Sometimes that may be doing what you don't want to . I put my son in daycare at 4 months because I can't afford to stay home and me and his father needed to work . But I took my time choosing and I loved where he was he's 7 hrs old now and still go to the same daycare it's family ran and they're like 2nd family to us now . I'm having my baby girl in January and going back to work in March and she too will be in daycare with them . But it's easier for me because these are people I dealt with since my son was a baby so they're family now so there's no trust issues my way . Just whatever you do make sure it's the best choice for YOU and if that's daycare make sure you really look into it and try to get know the staff before placing your baby in there !! my ouluvkay

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youluvkay

Kayla KhaduМама дочки-младенца

@olliesmommy21, yea that's what I was plan on doing because it's scary on how the daycares are but I'm just trying to think ahead just in case

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olliesmommy21

Tiffany RossМама дочки-младенца

I had the same problem, but me and my fiancé finally decided the best option was to stay home with my baby till she was able to talk because of all the crazy things going on with daycares, but I will say growing up my mother put all 3 of my siblings in daycare around 6 weeks.

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youluvkay

Kayla KhaduМама дочки-младенца

@mrsgower, not bad

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mrsgower

KateМама дочки-младенца

I'm not sure about that either. I'm staying home with my little girl. I just decided to go back to school for early childhood education and start child care out of my home.

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youluvkay

Kayla KhaduМама дочки-младенца

@mrsgower, okay she's 4 months and it's so hard because I'm so scared to leave her in daycare and not sure how you can tell it's a good fit for my child

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mrsgower

KateМама дочки-младенца

they say 6 weeks, however it's really your preference. as what to look for i dont know

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